n00b with potential?

I just finished reading The Game, was very intrigued, so here I am and here's my story. Thanks in advance for any help, I really do appreciate it!

I'm 20, college junior to be. I've been with 3 girls and kissed a few more, but I'm in the gym all the time and I think I'm good looking, so I'm pretty sure it was just physical attraction. I'm gameless. I can't talk to girls I don't know unless it's a college party setting (where alcohol is involved, hence all those sloppy makeouts) and even then my game is below average. If I see a bangable babe in the gym, in a store, or pretty much anywhere in day-to-day life, I don't got sh1t for game. I know it's possible, and I know you're all pros and do it all the time, but in the moment I can't imagine walking up to a girl I don't know and having a decent conversation that leads to anything. Oh boy am I eager to learn this skill though.

I haven't had sex in over a year, and in that time I've definitely had falling standards. It's a moot point because I still can't talk to a 6, but something needs to be done to rectify this situation. I'm willing to try and do anything. If any of you could give me some tips, or link me to relevant threads, I'd be eternally in your debt. Because, you know, I really want to get this handled ASAP. I would really enjoy having a lot of women in my life this upcoming year at school. Like, a lot

Well first welcome.

There are tons of good threads in here that will help just do some reading.

Also there are tons of programs out there thy can help build a frame work to build off of. Check out Bills product. It's called The Vibe. I don't have the link handy but I'm sure someone wil put it up here shortly.

Biggest thing is to be willing to try new things. You are going to be uncomfortable at times, just keep pushing and you can learn it too.

If you need anything just post it up or hit me up on pm and I'll see if I can help.

yeah. to get over something you have to emerge yourself in that feeling. so to get over anything that makes you nervous. just do it. trust me. everyone crash and burns for the first month or two. no PUA can pick up every girl. me and tcomea and bill still all get rejected. its hard to be perfect. so first accept this. YOUR GOING TO GET REJECTED A LOT. so just to think about it. get over it. you need to get rejected to learn

What no 5 for 5 yet?? Lol

two things: read conquer your college but ignore the frat part. David DeAngelo inner game work is great. The Vibe is a very good product too. These 3 recommendations are a lot of material maybe even overkill.

You know what they say practice makes perfect. nothing will work if you dont practice it. you dont get a lot of girls by being pretty alone. you have realized this already.

Take this small easy recommendations and follow them like your life depends on it:
1. smile and keep eye contact(both extremely important), wink, greet(hey, with the head, sup?) at every girl you see in the Univ. short, tall, skinny, fat, chunky, ugly, nerdy, every single one of em. The ones you dont like have pretty friends that you will.

2. keep a good straight posture.

3. become a well traveled, exiting person. eco-adventures, extreme adrenaline based sports are great for this kind of things. Know a little about every state/town that you can. knowing about this commonalities will push you two steps closer to the goal and 5 if she doesnt know about it.

4. Dont feel desperate, dont be needy, just be a relaxed alpha male that doesnt give a fark if she likes you or she dont.

5. Once again practice.

Follow this and you will be thanking us in no time.

So today I'm @ the pool with my boy dre, and I see a 7 tanning with a 4. Awesome. So anyway me and dre just chieffed a phat blunt, so we're chilling underwater w/ our goggles, and we see 74 in the water drifting over towards us. I read this thread so I know something must be done, I'm like Dre lets mack on these chicks, he's like naw so I go in alone.

When they see me coming they kind off faced each other as if in deep conversation. fark that. Well I went in anyway, opened with hey what's up guys. They say they're just chillin @ the pool (thanks ms obvious). I want to make sure they're over 18 so I ask where they're going to school in the fall, I've visited some friends where they're going so I tell some stories about my trips, and we just bs for a bit. Well I don't see anyway to get physical with the 7 given the current situation (surrounded by kids and their parents in a pool) nor do I know how to get her number w/o a very awkward silence given the fact my phone is a good 30 sec swim and 20 sec walk away, so I say well nice chattin w/ you 2 but I've gotta get back to hanging with my boy, and peace out.

In retrospect, that wasn't nearly as awkward as it was/could of been in the moment, and now that I'm removed from the situation it's no big deal. I'm def ready to go out and try again, and I'll try to get my hands on some of the material mentioned in this thread.

Thanks guys for you help, any advice that = pussy gained is worth its weight in gold.

well not bad. you did good with trying to check their age. but the Opener was weak, idk how your transition went, and you didnt Number Close. you dont have to have phone in hand at the time. just say they seem like some pretty cool girls and invite them to go do something. so then you could have grabbed the phone and number close.

Ok good job putting yourself out there. That’s the first step and the key step into the community. Im not going to bust on you for lack of a solid Opener, or transition cause you have only been here for a few days. That stuff will come. Nice job trying to connect with her on the stories too, next time when you tell the stories focus on the emotions of the story. How the experience made you feel stuff like that, girls eat that up cause that’s how they think. As far as the Number Close crob nailed it. Bait them with something cool your going to do then lock it down with the number.

Good job dude. Next time do it when your not high and see the difference. Never use alcohol or drugs to get over aa it wont work. It just makes you sloppy.

Keep it up.