approach and conversation problems

Hi there,I have one-two problems. And I really think that they are serious one.That is why i post all this think
Well the problem is this : When I'm with friends and somebody brings a girl(i know her very little or don't ever saw her) I'm acting different with that when I want to be with the girl I'm staying infront of.

When I'm going out with one girl and I want something out of hangout (i don't call it date, because it isn't) I'm really stuck in my head and asking "what I should say next" ALL the time or until she gives me some "validation" and that gives me something like "freedom" I'm going in state, but it never get to something more than simple chat

When I have a girlfriend and we are out TOGETHER my energy is VERY low, but when she goes home it is like a pump to my state.(if it does matter i had never been with ugly girl)

Does the money matters/counts ? How could I give the girl emotions (different than laughter) without any money in my pocket? How could I change the venue without even 2 bucks ?

I'm just from those type of families where we don't have money, there are yells often and when i just get into state there is always something bad that crushes my state...How could I save my state longer or even make it constant?


I really believe that you will try AND help me. I'm REALLY thankful !
And sorry for bad English

That was the ansewer I was looking for .. THANK YOU !!

lol idk if that was sarcasm or what because nobody replied. but you dont have to have money to Get Girls. have you ever noticed how much girls like cheap dates if you can do them correctly. yeah because they like knowing its true chemistry and not just fun with money. so some things you want to try and do is maybe stay away from the night life. night dates usually cost lots of money. but if you hang out during the day that will allow you to do lots of stuff and spend little to no money.

sometimes a PUA comes into an obstacle where it tests him. how you think about this or do about it actually kind of shapes the kind of PUA your going to be. so when you get hit with the unfortunate event of not having money, you have to change and differ from the rest of the PUAs. you have to start dating during the day. going for a hike, a cheap picnic, a walk, have a water balloon fight. anything cheap and easy but when it comes to cheap dates you need to be a talker. you need to engage her emotions. and if you guys arent doing much you need to keep her lively enough. so with no money, comes the practice to be a better conversationalist!

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perfect!! bill why didnt i think of that. The Vibe has a lot of good conversational techniques to build lots of rapport and attraction