Will this approach work?

In club I've watched eachother with girl. Then I smile, girl smiles back (sometimes giggles too). Mostlikely she does this twice.

I've wondered what if I wave girl that "come here". Is it good idea then start conversation: "You seem to be interesting, whats your name..."?

Do you think that first changing smiles and waving girl over here is a good idea? What do you think... More tactics and ideas please.

There's a couple ways you can go about this, but both will only work if you have a great fun vibe you're projecting outwards and others in the club can see it.

1) you're holding your own at your base. A base is a place in the club where you and your crew are having a great time, and other people can see it too. If you have a great crew and a big crew at your side, the first order of 'business' in a club is to establish a base, and befriend all the friendly people around your base, guy, girl, whatever. Then, when those smiles are exchanged, wave her over. You go into the encounter not as an underdog, but as THE MAN.

2) if you don't have a big crew by your side, then you can go ahead and do the approach. Bring your wingman and make sure you have great wing tactics down pat. Let your wing handle the group, and you can get your girl.

Hope these tips helped. Best of luck to ya.

I used to do it a ton in the club. To use a finger or wave is too obvious and to some people, demeaning and or demanding. I use the head nod and mouth "come here." I used to sit in this bar between the two music venues near the main through-fare and would just "Pssssssst" at girls as they walked by. It's called the "philipino love call" and honestly it will make almost any chick do a 180 degree turn even with the band roaring at 100 decibals. This cuts trhough noise like a knife... arfter that, it's up to you to be smooth, but that will get them looking and often coming over, then it's up to you. I'd use a head nod if they didn't come over, then try to think of something situation appropriate/ observational.

I don’t disagree with that statement about preventing the guys night out. But that’s why you bring girls too. Have as large of a social circle as you can. Show preselection and be That Guy out of the group. Do this and women will open you.

Prime example last weekend me and about 10 of my friends (guys and girls) went out. I planned it, I organized it, and I was making sure everyone was having fun (which wasn’t hard after we all were hitting the patron shots). Im there with my GF but I had women coming up to me and trying to pick me up. Luckily I have a great wing who I could pass them off to for the night.

I don’t disagree with that statement about preventing the guys night out. But that’s why you bring girls too. Have as large of a social circle as you can. Show pre-selection and be That Guy out of the group. Do this and women will open you.

Prime example last weekend me and about 10 of my friends (guys and girls) went out. I planned it, I organized it, and I was making sure everyone was having fun (which wasn’t hard after we all were hitting the patron shots). Im there with my GF but I had women coming up to me and trying to pick me up. Luckily I have a great wing who I could pass them off to for the night.

Someone please handle this guy. I don't appreciate it when people cut and paste my posts word for work and insert their crap links.