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Old 06-05-2011, 02:39 PM
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If I have build my friendship using only technique and hooks and crooks,if you guys get me,it will have me struggling inside to make any real connection.

Problem is that the PUA makes this process into a systemized game as it were.

Love is not a system-it just happens. Sure you can get her number on a first meeting.But what happens after that?

You cant go back to using gimmicks anymore.Time to show who you really are and hopefully you are just as good as you pretended to be.


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Old 06-05-2011, 02:41 PM
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I was with you right until you went off about Trinidian girls..?? lol I had similar thoughts about foreign women. But, I later noticed foreign women who are entirely different. It's the GIRL bra.

I think what the responders are saying is use routines as backup, not the entire thing, until you're comfortable on your own. Then you do natural or whatever works for you.

I'm natural at talking. Except talking is how I go on or become the friend. So I bypass a few things/go direct-which ironically takes the pressure off.
yes I agree.Thanks.The routine will help if you get stuck yes.
So do you sit and decide what you gonna do after you finish reading all this stuff?
Surely you need to come up with a plan before you go out?Or do you?


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Old 06-05-2011, 09:07 PM
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NATURAL game, you can get to this level with experience. I don't do routines anymore.


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Old 06-06-2011, 06:24 PM
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Cool obviously just wants to talk. Look at the multiple replies. He's saying it's all negative without any effort. He's got an excuse for everything! Look dude. You either want to try or you don't..

Cool, I'm no expert. I wind up winging it. Something always happens that messes up my plan. Or, I think too hard LIKE YOU which is counter-productive. Remember the 3-5 second rule. That builds pressure. So the answer is yes AND No. Nothing will ever be PERFECT.


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Old 06-07-2011, 11:36 PM
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As I said.. Natural game!


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