Sarging without a wingman

Dear all,

These days I am always sarging on my own. I wonder if there are any good tactics in order not to look like a loner when you go for girls.

Get five rejections tonight. I didn't feel a damn thing; however, my confidence's got lessened a bit.

Cheers
RonnyC

Try not to let that affect you man... A lot of confidence artists (the good kind, and probably the criminal kind as well) and PUA's mention that aspiring pua's tend to underestimate the value of social proof (or underestimate how hard it is to dhv when you're all alone as a result). It's a really effective way to DHV through status.
In your case, if you're ballsy, I would recommend you just open a whole bunch of groups at a single spot. Even if it's just guys or there are no interesting targets. Even if it's just to say 'Cheers'. From the outside, it looks like you know everyone, and even when they find out that's not the case, you will have made the impression, you'll just have to keep a congruent frame to retain it.
So the short answer would be, work the room and work it quickly. That way you won't creep anyone out with loner status and you'll actually have DHV'd a whole lot before you approach your target.

These are just recommendations that I've read though, and you have to be comfortable opening up a few groups in a short span of time...

Hope that helps...

Thanks for your reply Professor X. It's hard, isn't it. I know having a wingman would make things easier. However from my past bad experience of partnering up some wankers, now I totally give up the idea of having a wingman.

I think I still have an issue of Approach Anxiety. The anxiety always hits me so badly once I have a few rejections and then try to move on to redeem myself by talking other girls. My head starts gibbering at that time and my confidence sinks at the bottom.

These days for me, games don't work properly when I was on dance floor. It's just too noisy and hard to talk girls.

Cheers
RonnyC

I try to think of every encounter as a field exercise, and take advantage of the dissociation I have with strangers. Remember, the chick doesn't really reject you (unless you have a third arm or something) she rejects your approach or your frame and THEN associates that subconscious assessment with you. Try to just consider EVERY social encounter as an opportunity to read and test people. That way, you never fail... you only learn. It's a bit preachy, I know, but the game is all about being able to project and retain a frame. So just get into THAT frame for the sake of your inner game. I've found doing that to be pretty liberating.