I have a head start, how to maintain...

So today was orientation for college and I met a few girls in my program, there's only 85 students, 25 girls and 60 guys .. this is a firefighter program, so the guys are all physically fit, some have natural game and such...

there's a girl that I met today and we hung out for a bit during orientation and after we grabbed a few rounds of margaritas and I dropped her off at home. She mentioned a few times for me to crash at her place (she's renting a room starting next week), how we are going to study together and workout together. She was looking at me a lot and touched me on the arm and stuff, I know she has the initial interest, how can I make faster approaches to claim her territory before she meets other guys from the program? clean and swift stylez... thanks!

lots of things may send her that one signal that gives her the green light, or lets her acknowledge your green light so that she may give you the green light.

-catch her looking at you, smile, send a facial expression that may lead her out.

-talk to her starting from how far you would usually. slow the speech as you subtly ease in toward her face, look in her eyes and smile. glance at her lips, then look back up at her eyes.

-watch a movie together on her bed/sofa/whatever. subtly go from friend distance to cuddling motions. shell do one of 2 things, especially since shes given you these signs already. 1. shell smile, and go along with it, transition to the sexual heaaaaling! (singing)
or 2. she'll look at your face, and say under her breath, what are you doing??, slowly glance at her, gently smile and say "i just cant control myself " and keep it going if she doesnt do anything.

-theres lots more ways to escalate. these just came to my mind first.

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-Pierrot

update on the status...

so as predicted there's competition already... I think I'm still first oin he rmind, but she's been bringing up second "choice" when I disagree to do something or not display something AFC... I think she's trying to see my reaction as a sh1t test and I'm holding my ground and being in control and not showing any signs to be controled by her needs.

Is there a way to out compete him further, he's 5 years older than me AND he's a second year student, so she MAY seek him for advice on eduational aspects.

any suggestions to close a deal fast?

she sounds like she needs to get her sh1t together before jumpin around for guys as sporadically as she does.

shes gonna have that one night where if you txt her she will reply as though option 2 is boring her.

THAT would be your best time to strike and offer her something seemingly better.

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-Pierrot

Brada u need timing ,and timing is determined by taking the oppourtunity as it comes ,depending on what u want ,you can have her ,just game her

UPDATE!!

today, she came to the first class, and she was toching me in the arms and abs and the convo was like this...
HB:"OMG, George likes me!! he told me, and I'm like dude it's been like 5 days, but I might go out with him"
Me: "oh lovely" and not seemingly care
HB:"what do you mean?"
Me: "we all make choices right?" and changed subjects. a few minutes later we went into the class and I sat down beside another girl in class, not too good looking, and
HB:"way to save me a seat!!"
and I simply blew her off by saying .. "I'm making new friends in this program... you're not the only special one".. throughout class, she kept looking at me, and touching me. After we went to the gym, and the guy came to find her and randoms, nothing happened between the two.

She's trying to make me move faster in making a move.. but I'm maintaining control.... The guy told her he likes her, and she's considering it, I'm guessing I'm the reason why she hasn't done anything yet .. any suggestions on this.. should I let him win and not fight? or keep calm, do what I'm doing and make her crave me more than him?.. because right now, he's a total AFC with a few unoriginal jokes on him...

how do you think I'm doing? good? not so hot?.. should move faster.. what's next for me?

well think about it.

youve made yourself more of a challenge. Attention is key. now since AFC is showing her that his attnetion is easy to attain, she DOES like that, but she wants to feel like she earned it.

good job but keep in mind not to prolong this, at some point you want to make a move but make it seem like shes making the move and you find her interesting blah blah blah

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-Pierrot

Pierrot is right ,u made yoself more of a challenge ,just remember u have spent time with her ,so i wont seem unnatural if you tell her you like her, but move fast ,nd fast dont mean hurrying ,work with precision

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Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

thanks for the heads up.. this is what happened today.. so I claim semi-victory...

she text me tonight saying.."I don't think I can be friends with this guy anymore because I see him as friend and he wants more..." she asked me to go play basketball with her and her friends at this event and just seems to value my opinion and yet likes how I actually make her enjoy her time with me.. had dinner with her and the other guy (George)...

she threw her her fork at me and I made it clear it's not acceptable and made her leave the restaurant and take the bus home.... (obviously she knew it was a joke) .. George went running after her and said I was mean .... things are looking good.. I should be making a move in a week or so, let her know me better and have her know what she's in for....

ahhh its these weirdo f-cking moments that make a relationship meaningful!

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-Pierrot