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How To Approach Women

. Learn Proven Methods And Advanced Techniques To Approach Sets Of Women Without Fear.
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:13 PM
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Default Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

Ok last night I saw these two girls easily HB9s but I wasn't worried about how hot they were I just didn't know of what I should go up and say. So I left without talking to them. I need some help


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Old 09-19-2011, 06:25 AM
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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

Try to do it with a wingwoman


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Old 09-19-2011, 08:40 AM
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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

I could but I wanna do this by myself


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Old 09-19-2011, 09:56 PM
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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

It's not about what you say, it's mostly about your body language. develop the body language and the confidence to go up to the girls and simply be honest. Be sure to make sure how you're standing, your eye contact, and the tone of your voice/speed of your words. If you do that right, conversation will come naturally as long as you're not being a drunk/horny asshole

Look around for a technique called the Trust Talk routine. It's the best way to open with little chance of any rejection. Basic idea involves you going up to the girls and establishing commonly known facts. For example lets say you're approaching two HB9's with a girly drink, they're both wearing cowboy boots (I'm in a fraternity and I go to an SEC School, I see stuff like this all the time), and one's a brunette while the other's a blonde.

A safe way to approach this is to go up to the less attractive of the two and say: "Hey, I couldn't help but notice these boots. Honestly, I think they go well with that girly drink of yours (wink)".

If she smiles or giggles, you're in if you can keep your cool. If you can do it right, you'll be sleeping with the more attractive girl of the two by the end of the night, as it's all about attention if you can keep a conversation going.

Keep in mind, no approach will ever work unless you have rock-solid confidence, steady eye contact and control of the situation. When you have confidence, conversation flows naturally too.

Your issue isn't that you don't know what to say, it's that you're missing inner game and the confidence to go do it. It's not really that hard, sometimes I will think of the most random thing in my mind and go up to some random girls and talk about it. A few weeks ago I thought of the Big Lebowski at a bar when I was talking with some Fraternity Brothers so I approached the most gorgeous girls in the bar tonight and struck up a funny, charged convo about the Big Lebowski. From there, you can shift the conversation to whatever tone you want if you get what i'm saying


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Old 09-20-2011, 12:01 AM
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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

Nice help man but go big 12 lol


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Old 09-20-2011, 07:47 PM
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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

Walk up from an oblique angle in front of them, almost as if you're going to walk past them. Don't rush. Smile. Look alpha.

Pause as you're about to pass. Turn your head, with your body facing away still.

Say: "Hey guys, my friends and I were fighting, and we need a female opinon .

Then, "I knew you'd say that! Would you do me a favor and come tell my friends? They'll think I'm lying if I say that two beautiful girls said X when they think that you think Y!


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Old 09-21-2011, 03:27 PM
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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

That approach is faker than Pamela Anderson's tits.

Be natural, be alpha. I promise it'll work much better.


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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

I'm plenty of confidence I can talk to anyone about anything. And I don't care how hot they are I see them as people. My problem is going up and just randomly saying something


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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

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That approach is faker than Pamela Anderson's tits.

Be natural, be alpha. I promise it'll work much better.
What do you suggest? I'm eager to learn. This has worked for me in the past, and I very rarely get rejected with it. Most people love talking, even if they know its fake!

Any tips?


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Old 09-22-2011, 10:56 PM
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Default Re: Help going up to two girls who were HB9s

My thoughts on this thread:

Noname...: any approach has a chance to work, we never know the definite value because how could we? the values of certain approaches are only set by standards of certain individuals who have experimented them in certain scenarios, environments, what have you. Try it, try it many times, see how many out of your tries actually takes the bait. You MAY be surprised, however the more spread on the variety of targets you have tried this on... the more accurate your chances seem to be, which is always good to know.

Since its worked plenty for you, stick with it. It always comes down to you.

onyx: in all honesty and respect, i must say that being alpha alone has its own chances as using a canned or original Opener. however, for some targets, when they see a man just being very alpha, they tend to steer away from him. The Alpha has been the target for women time immemorial, believe it or not some targets want to go against the grain, just like some PUAs do.

Id only ask that you consider this fact that the world itself is a collection of variables among variables, which is why reading, luring, and body language, picking up on every signal is key. it helps you determine what would work best and what wouldnt do so well.

Hopeful33: its gonna sound like a halfassed answer but i feel that telling you that trying again and again, reflecting, planning better, and repeating is the best remedy. this way the most important part, instinct, picks up on this and works to your advantage.

Having said this, go forth and do great things.
-Pierrot

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