Ask me for advice

Just registered but I've been in the game for about 6 years and used to be active on this and other forums. Years ago I was part of the Dream Lounge and was one of the guys who was involved in starting the Under 21 Convention, but joined the military, got married for two years, and fell out of the scene. After getting divorced 2 years ago I've been more involved in the community, not because I need help anymore but to help other people. I'm now at the point where I feel confident I've learned everything I need to. Last year I slept with 36 girls and for my birthday had a lingerie party with 4 of my closest guy friends and about 30 girls. I'm saying this not to brag or impress anyone, but since getting back into the community I've noticed a lot of the people giving advice barely get laid themselves. The internet is a place where anyone can be an expert, so it's hard to distinguish between who knows what they're talking about, and who's full of sh1t (For all you know maybe I am too). Pick-up has become (And always has been to an extent) overly commercial, with people charging thousands of dollars for a couple of days of training that's not much more helpful than reading a book and going out to sarge yourself.
I'm going to become more active in these forums now that I've registered again, but if anyone has any questions specifically they need help with, I'd be glad to give my advice. You can read my thoughts on game in this thread and decide for yourself if you think my advice is worth taking or not. Before anyone flames me, I'm not looking for an ego boost, just want to help anyone who needs it. If so ask away and I'll do my best to reply quickly.

Edit: If the mods feel this should be in a different forum please feel free to move it.

Hey, I just wanted to see if there was a "best" way to walk up to a girl in the store, not talk for long, and walk away with her number. Once I get her number I'm pretty good with talking with them... But the initial start of the conversation is a little intimidating

Easy..here's what you do...next time your at the mall..and you see a girl your attracted to...walk up to her and tell her your lost looking for type a store that sells certain clothes...when she begins to give you options blow them away..with either "I've been there didnt like what I saw" or "was just there but they sold out" continue..

as she gives you more options keep blowing them away. finally when you feel like shes run out of ideas and is about to leave...stop her and tell her you were just playing and that you saw her walking up and thought she was attractive..and had to talk to her...

change the subject an begin talking about something else...play the guessing game with her..anything...youl l already have her attention with the Opener youve just pulled...

i read this type of pick up on these forums it was a street pick up though..similar in a lot of ways...i've tested them and they work..just remember to have a back up subject incase you get stuck.

good luck.

awesome advice. here is my dilemma.
I am fark buddies with a girl in my class now it has been for 1 month. i want to see other girls and i have her blessing. the problem is the girl i want to target knows that i have a fark buddy. This girl seems interested in me but I don't know how to approach this situation.

FYI on target girl:
Physical: cute/petite
Vulnerabilities: she is 29 and worried that she is old and her biological clock is running out, yet she is in med school and does not plan to be in a relationship. (i am 25)
relation to me: I had informal lunch and dinner with her and had a great time but can't take it to the next level of sex with no strings attached.
possible problem: She knows (but never mentioned to me) about my other no strings attached buddy. and both of these girls share the same classes with me.

how can i approach this situation? i am relativly new to the game

Honestly it depends on how you want to approach it. Do you want to see her for a potential long relationship girlfriend, a Fwb or a One Night Stand? For a long relationship, as I have never been in one, I would not know much about approaching them, or even anything about them. I would assume if you wanted that, then show a little interest.. if you guys start talking, then keep her a little jealous with that other girl, but pretty much act like the other girl is not happening.. don't lie, but don't bring it up.. if she knows, then she'll be a little jealous, and wonder what its like with you... especially if your f**k buddy is hot. Kinda hard trying 2 girls at once... Well relationship wise anyways lol.. it just depends on what you want out of this

My question:

I recently moved to a college town with a lot of girls in the 18-23 range and I am finding they already have lots of friends when I approach them (often guy friends). I don't have as much of a social circle and it is hard to get into a college circle when I don't actually go to the school, I'm not going to the parties, seeing girls in class etc. I did quite well last year but now I feel like an outsider when I approach (I do both day game and night game).

Furthermore, I am afraid to go direct now because I don't want to get a reputation among the girls (since they all know each other from school and stuff). I don't want to be known/recognized on campus as that guy who walks around telling girls they are cute. Am I just overthinking all of this?

Totally dude.. you don't want to tell a girl she's cute first of all, that'll put it on a medical. If you wanna build a good rep, you want to be the guy that doesn't go to the school, but is known for banging all of em.. just something to think about

Sorry to the people who PMed me, I haven't had internet for the last 10 days or so. Jkwan, don't try to get into their social circles. Instead, invite them into your (Non-existant) social circle. Don't worry yet about farking every girl you meet, just Meet Girls as friends, bring them out with you to clubs, malls, whatever it is you're doing. If they like you as a person they'll reciprocate by inviting you to their parties and events, and you can become part of their social circle that way.

Really all you need to get int someone's circle of friends is to know at least 2 of them. Once you know more than one person in a group of friends, you're essentially part of that group of friends, and it becomes a lot easier to branch out and meet other people from there. My social circle exploded. I used to throw parties, and I personally invited about 10-15 people that showed up to the first one I threw. About 40 people showed up from friends inviting their friends, and I made an effort to meet them all, add them on Facebook, get their numbers, etc. Then I invited all these new people to the next party, and about 100 people showed up to the next one. By the third party I had literally 300-400 people in the house.

Before anyone calls BS, here's the second party I've ever thrown (And this is just one room). There were about 4 times as many people in the whole house. That pic was from about a year and a half ago. The more recent ones had so many people there were about 100 people waiting on the lawn to get in, and we were charging $20 per guy (Girls were free). Social circles grow exponentially. You just have to know how to take advantage of it.

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