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How To Approach Women

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View Poll Results: Have you approached yet?
Yes, with the goal to close 7 35.00%
Yes, with the goal to practise opening 5 25.00%
No, because of Approach Anxiety 4 20.00%
No, because I haven't learned sufficient theory yet 4 20.00%
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Old 01-14-2012, 01:58 PM
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Question Have you approached yet? POLL

This is a poll to determine what percentage of the members here has actually made an approach. So who has actually walked up to a woman and used a direct or an indirect Opener with the goal to either practise opening or closing?

This is all just because I'm curious

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I have. I do it every day. And truth of the matter is I have tons of insecurities, and I do it anyway, so there is no farking reason that anyone else can't do it. If a 6 ft 300 lb non muscular man can approach an 8 or 9 and still get the number, anyone can do it.


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I'm glad you show such courage, despite your insecurities. I have an average height, muscled body, and am decent looking. Yet I'm still afraid of approaching. So major compliments to you, Blistex!


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Seriously? How the hell can that be its actually really easy. I wish you lived near me I could show you some ways to get past the anxiety, its really not that difficult.

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I am not a bad looking guy, I just don't have an attractive body type and my teeth are crooked and yellow, and a few other minor problems. I have an exclusively wal-mart wardrobe too, but I live in a small town in KS, so most people do as well, though we do have a 50000 dollar a year tuition college. You just have to believe in yourself. Being happy, showing that you are generally happy, and weather you get rejected or not, you are still gonna be happy helps a ton. I caught onto that by listening in on a girl talk session actually. Its not the fact that I am fat that hinders me, its the fact you can tell I am self-concious of it. I still am, but I'm just good at faking like I'm not. I'm still not sure how well I would do in a city setting.



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What is funny is that 90% of the guys are too afraid to to approach (in a club) and probably even more would never have balls to do a daytime approach. I still get super nervous at night (I'm more of a daygamer) but when I look around at how many guys are just standing against the wall, or at the bar in their groups that they came with, it shows how most guys can't even get past the approach.

Basically, if you just grab your balls and walk up to a girl, you have already surpassed most of the world's men.


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but when I look around at how many guys are just standing against the wall, or at the bar in their groups that they came with, it shows how most guys can't even get past the approach.]
Word I used to go to parties when I was 16 or so and when I'd walk by a hot girl I just say "Damn your fine I fark you." Sounds hella sleazy I know but no other guy would end up talking to her at all and guess who she would end up all over? lol I won't use this anymore cuz I grew up and so did the girls so I go for classier girls now.

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Seriously? How the hell can that be its actually really easy. I wish you lived near me I could show you some ways to get past the anxiety, its really not that difficult.

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I am not a bad looking guy, I just don't have an attractive body type and my teeth are crooked and yellow, and a few other minor problems. I have an exclusively wal-mart wardrobe too, but I live in a small town in KS, so most people do as well, though we do have a 50000 dollar a year tuition college. You just have to believe in yourself. Being happy, showing that you are generally happy, and weather you get rejected or not, you are still gonna be happy helps a ton. I caught onto that by listening in on a girl talk session actually. Its not the fact that I am fat that hinders me, its the fact you can tell I am self-concious of it. I still am, but I'm just good at faking like I'm not. I'm still not sure how well I would do in a city setting.
The thing is I have always been very alienated of women. I grew up being bullied everywhere - even the girls participated at some point. When I was 18 (22 now) I reached the friend zone, which I saw as quite the accomplishment because at least she wasn't disgusted by me. Thanks to reading PUA theory for the past 2 years I have a much healthier perspective on women and dating now. But I guess that one step that makes me break through and reach a level I never thought possible is kinda scary. But it WILL HAPPEN. Soon. Maybe tomorrow . I'm looking forward to it.


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Honestly what has made the difference for me is when you see a girl you want to approach just do it. Whats the worst, you are gonna bomb out and not get her anyway? Seriously just say fark it and do it, grow some balls. Make sure to smile the whole time thats the most important part. Smile Smile Smile. thats the difference between me being creepy and being attractive tbh.


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