wanting to try goofy shy humour approaches...

hey all ive been approaching with confidence alpha etc but its not working for me..probably because being in control of my world making the descisions is not a check that i can cash at this point in my life and can come accross a little fake to her and to me aswell.

This weekend im going to try my first approaches being a little bit goofy and shy a bit like the type of dude youd see on a comedy..
I will keep my subtext as slightly more confident than what i actually say...
I will also use goofy sence of humour in my approach to hopefully get them laughing.


Anyone Tried It? if it sux ill go back to fake it till you make it alpha confidence..

This approach has landed me in the friend zone numerous times. Took me months to escape it. But that's just me I'm not a pro by any means.

The shy guy in a comedy is a nice guy. He only gets those hot girls in the movies. Try to implant the alpha characteristics that are either your own by nature or you could learn at this point in your life. Alpha confidence comes from within - what you think of yourself without any judgemental influences from the outside. Becoming happy with yourself is the primary step towards inner confidence. If it's really so bad that you can't be happy about yourself, start focusing on further developing your good qualities and eliminating the bad ones. Visualise what person you want to be, and become that person.

I found the primary question girls ask is "so what do you do?"
my job dosent match the nice clothes... and saying lighter repairman or going into a story doesnt cover it and the girl will Roll Off ignore me and talk to another dude...that sums up a lot of approaches..

the only other style of approach i can think of that has yeilded results is to get the shts with it all..not just alpha confident that just gets me sht tests or girls interest dropping thinking im arrogant,fake...

but if i stay alpha but a 'not that nice' aswell then it works for me..
if a girl gives me sht ill give it back none of this leave em better than you found em stuff more 'well fuk ya then' type stuff works for me.

It doesn't matter what job you have, as long as you sound excited about it. For example, let's say you clean dirty toilets with a toothbrush. Just smile and say "I clean dirty toilets with a toothbrush. It's a really nasty job hahaha but I get paid well and I meet a lot of friendly people".

sh1t tests are easily passed by as long as you keep your frame, which is easy if you follow my previous post.

Ive used that type of frame control before but for me to use it again to pass the tests i get ill need to be more agressive in knowing what i want so i dont get sucked into nice self validation interactions with a girl who is not interested which has happened a thousand times literally or turning into a conversational entertainer on a cold set to stroke my ego that i could have another nice conversation..
Anyhow i'll post a field report saturday night with the results..
cheers guys..

o.k short reild report. used a few sht shy humour approaches and it was kinda awkward works to attract average girls who would be attracted anyway but its the best way to get a blowout or warm up set without being rude to a girl...went back to agressive not giv a sht confident game and opened a few sets had a bit of interest but logisitcs sucked my mate couldnt approach and got anxiety stress so my old mr nice bros before hoes kicked in and after realising he would enter a set all night i decided to flag it since i needed a lift with him back home.

Still a good night of lessons sticking to my confident game. the problem ive realised is not getting attraction its my wings high standards, id bang a lot of the girls i open but worry what theyd think.so need to work on ego..