She's not into me

So there is a girl i'm into, met her once at a party friend had me dance with her and we kinda just starred at each other while dancing for some time and didn't say much . after that party she added me on facebook regardless of our awkward dance. We would see eachother around campus and not speak to one another.
Recently there has been another party and once again a friend brought me over to dance with her, and we did with out speaking AGAIN. So after the next day, i had my friend tell her that i thought she was cute and that me and her should talk to each other and get to know each other. She told my friend that I'm awkward, and that she's not into me like that.(I understand the mistakes I have made by not speaking to her while dancing with her both times, shows I lack confidence...etc) How can I possibly approach her/get to know her and change her thoughts of me.

Hey GucciNobou, at this point I don't think you can try and change her thoughts on you. I'd move on and try finding another chick.

Looking back at what you did wrong. It's okay to be nervous or shy as long as you're still trying to escalate the relationship. I wouldn't have had your friend do the asking out for you especially since you had her contact info through Facebook but at least it got you a response from her that she wasn't interested in you.

In the future if you see her again I'd trying talking a little more and keep things casual. If she seems to respond better to you from you finally opening up try and escalate from there. Then again, she might not be interested in you no matter how much you talk. Move on and keep looking for other chicks, but keep that in mind if you see her again.

On to the next one. The cool thing about women, regardless of where you are at, is there are so many of them. Forget this girl, she has no interest in you, don't let it effect you. Learn from your mistakes, grow into a better man, and keep going.

Work on you game, become more confident. There are other women at those parties so game them up. Eye contact and smile two very important factors you should always use to you advantage.

Yes man, its like the brothers are saying find other girls.
One of the vital developments Game will give is the ability not to get hooked up on a girl you only just met.

Also, it seems to me like you could do with working on your small talk, am I right?