Transitioning from friend to girlfriend

I have two female friends at my college that I feel that I can (and wouldn’t mind) being in a relationship with. I just don’t know how to transition from being friend to something deeper. I am direct and honest with my feelings. Friend #1, just wants to be friends. She does not want a relationship, but she does not want to be friends with benefits.

On a trip to a competition I mentioned this to her. Then she kept playing games, and challenged me to get a girl number. I failed at doing that, then female #1 said I failed her test. However, she got royally pissed w/ me when I successfully managed to hang out w/ another girl at the pool in the hotel. Is there a chance?

Female #2, is a classmate, and is a partner for a project. I feel were semi-cool, but dont know how to go deeper. Then, I don't know if my friend told her before I did that I wanted to date her. Is there a chance?

Fark her tests. Good for you for not waiting on her bullsh1t and moving on to try and find other chicks. I personally wouldn't waste my time with a chick that plays games like this but if you want to I think you're going about it the right way which is she needs to realize that if she isn't going to accommodate your desires of being more than friends then she's going to lose out and you're going to move one.


Your job as the man is to seek out women you're attracted to, make a move (setup a date), and then try escalating physically. After the dates and sex you want to see who keeps coming back for more and then you can gradually transition into a relationship. Usually if you've been getting physical with a chick enough and hanging out with her consistently she's going to bring up where your relationship is at. Then if you both agree you can mutually declare you're in a relationship.