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Unread 12-16-2009, 04:37 PM
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Default IOIs Indicators of Interest List

Active IOIs
*She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking
*She giggles
*She touches you
*She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you
*She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so
*She tosses her hair (to see if you will look)
*If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second
*She smiles at you
*She stands nearby (proximity)
*She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said
*While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you
*She says something to her friend and they both giggle
*She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation
*While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention)
*She asks you for your name
*She asks you your age (make her guess)
*She compliments you
*She is playful and tries to challenge you
*She's disagreeing but laughing
*She's punching your arm but laughing
*She uses nicknames for you
*She plays with her hair while talking to you
*When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours
*She repeatedly touches you in any way
*She asks if you have a girlfriend
*She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one
*When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back
*She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you
*She avoids mentioning her boyfriend
*If it comes up that you like somthing, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it
*When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction
*She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking
*She introduces you to friends
*She buys you a drink
*She calls you a player or a heart-breaker
*On her way out, she re-approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #)
*On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her)
*She returns your calls
*She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have Isolation with you

Passive IOIs
*Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing) but she stays
*She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods
*If you move, she follows you or waits for you
*She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close
*She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistance to avoid feeling like a slut)


The most important IOIs to look for are:
*She re-initiates conversation when you stop talking
*She giggles
*She touches you
*She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you"

Enjoy!

I also recommend this thread on body language:
http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...-language.html


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Unread 12-16-2009, 06:22 PM
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Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

Another great post. Busy day on the forum for you.


 
Unread 12-28-2009, 12:04 PM
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Yup. It's a good indicator indeed if a girl is finding you funny when your friends and relatives normally don't. And leaning towards you is also good, or being the one to initiate whispering or talking in your ear as opposed to shouting over the din.


 
Unread 12-30-2009, 10:08 PM
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Indeed, it's a great post dude. Thanks for the infos. Atleast, we will be able to determine the common lOl being displayed by girls.


 
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Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

another ioi that i didnt get to see there:

shes looking at you and everytime you look at her shes changing her view somewhere else.


 
Unread 02-01-2010, 06:31 AM
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she is playing with hair while i am talking with her,,,,,, this is the main one that once i see i go oh yeah, she is into this. i can 'feel' if it isn't going well, it just sort of transmits if she wants me to f+++ off. the twilrling her hair thing sorta reminds me or gives me a que that oh yeah this is going well.

i try and read eye ques or visual contact. NLP stuff gave me alot of visual ques.... what is she doing with her eyes whilst we talk or where is she looking????

would you say chicks are more self conscious than us? or in different ways? cos if they like me they often care what i think of them and if i dont seem to care yet show some interest in her, she usually is a bit self conscious as she cares how i perceive her....

the twirling of hair seems to say yes I am listening to you PUA, tell me something

i get a few pulling on necklaces when they want me to approach

this is the sort of stuff i would like someone to help me out more with and maybe get some reporting back to someone on what i am finding and observing out in the field


 
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This is so cool. I've just amped up my game a lot more these past few days due to having access to actual parties and being out in the "night" zone rather than just day game and I'm seeing ALL of these IOIs in different girls from day game to night game! Very interesting.


 
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theres a book thats very helpful its called: body language by julius fast. READ CHAPTER 7.


 
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mystery wannabe very cool. that's motivating seeing that what skills i have worked on may be applicable in other areas or better still may be developed further by upping my game to other arenas. good reminder dude. thanks


 
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Default Re: IOIs Indicators of Interest List

Can you tell me fake ioi's and when women do them?

Is it IOI if woman says something teasing or negative about you? Without knowing you well. Or are they just trying to qualify me? me?


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