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Old 12-18-2009, 11:00 AM
Solomon
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Default Re: Text message flirting

One line I sometimes use is this:

You can perk me up better than coffee


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Old 12-26-2009, 05:19 PM
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I found some text messages to flirt with girls on line, but these are horrible. Does anyone have any GREAT text messages to flirt with girls?
These are mostly just pickup lines. If you already have the number then your most likely past the "1 liner to break the ice" stage. Remember, if she gave you the number then she is most likely already interested.

The main problem with texting is it is as impersonal as an email. Good text flirting is about keeping them thinking between the sent and received messages. when you first start talking to someone through text, its important to start out friendly. Ill give you an example, the girl Im talking to now only talks in texts. When I first text her I start with something simple like "heya darlin, hows your day going?" This lets her know I am looking for a conversation and if she wants to talk she will respond.(IMPORTANT: If she doesnt respond, she is probably busy. dont text or call again for atleast a few hours. That would come off as deperation and/or stalkerish)

Innuendo is a great way to flirt through texts, I have been friendly a few days now and occasionally throwing in an offer to meetup with her for lunch. After 3 times of no go, the next day I sent: (PS. I use a slight accent in texts to make it a little more out of the ordinary texts)
me: "So... I used up my 3 strikes on trying to see ya again."
her: "Lol no! There are no strikes!"
me: "so does that mean your gonna let me walk to first base at the new years party?"
her: "Most likely"
me: "naughty girl... I like that"
her: "Good"

Even though it has taken me a few days to get to this point just talking like friends, I have established trust and interest on an intellectual and now a physical level. This method is more for longer lasting relationships.

Main advice: be friendly, be original and DONT double text. The idea of texting is the fantasy the girl builds in her head from your words. short simple and sweet seems to be the best way to leave room for her imagination, too wordy or odd can be disasterous if you dont have a snappy followup.

"Everything you can imagine is real." -Pablo Picasso

~Confidence


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Old 01-02-2010, 05:51 AM
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Yeah txting is great tool good post, been going on for while since like 22nd txting back forth HB shes one these whose shy to talk to on phone so stick to txting both busy over xmas but I've sorted meet coming friday.Most havent txted is 2days full last week which still interested thinking stopping 2days this week, we got good vibe going, would ya's agree that its ok idea to do 2days off?

as I have built good Comfort and attraction,trust etc and qualified her alot even do on txts.

(these 1st two I use all time txtin goes very well)
What sort of trouble are you causing?
Hope yr not misbehaving trouble...if not why?

And I found these long time ago! not sure where give credit for them!
might give some ideas to make up your own do

What are you doing, cutie? :-)
SURPRISE!
Knock knock...
How's my favorite little brat doing?
I just made you open your phone for no reason...looks like I got you in check =]
Hey goof, I bet my weekend can beat up your weekend.
I am luring girls to my house with candy, which do you prefer skittles or M&M's?
Hey..do me a favor and text me right back. Just hi or something. My friends dont believe retards can text. We'll show em lil buddy
I know my math u+i equals 69
Girls are gross...
I hope you are smiling. If not just think of me!
Aliens are coming to abduct all the sexy people off the planet and force them to breed. You should be safe, I just wanted to text to say goodbye.
Remember guys tomorrow is "Hug a retard" day...So don't freak out like you did last year, NO ONE IS TRYING TO HURT YOU!
I just met your twin
I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really good together.
Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met.
Out of all the (first name) (last name)'s I know... I think your my favorite.
You just popped into my head so Hi...now please stay out of there
Sweet dreams, sexy. :-) [name]
Hey I hope you got home safe. [name]
Let's fly to Las Vegas, get married, argue about our third kid's name, divorce, and grow old lonely and depressed
I don't know who you're boyfriend is...but he's not spanking you enough!
I don't think you're ready for this jelly
Awww, you're so sweet. You're making me get diabetes.
I just don't think we should do this anymore...Sometimes you make me feel like I am just a piece of meat.
I was thinking of you...
Something about u seems to always make me smile.


"congratulations "
"for what?" "what did i do?" "why?"
"i was just thinking of u. congratulations =)

if we don't hang out soon then I'm
going to start cheating on you!


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Old 01-02-2010, 06:05 AM
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Funny and humorous text messages will surely work on a girl. Although romantic messages could be too cheesy, it also works fine. For me, I send out humorous text messages and they respond instantly in a positive manner. And it keeps the exchange of text messages alive.


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Old 01-02-2010, 09:04 AM
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My whole thing about online game or text game is yes it is simply easier to socialize with
with extremly attractive women when your not looking at them. The pros of cyber game are
almost overpowered by the cons for instance sure you can escalate her value of you and even arouse her
but there is an absence of Kino and body language which is Vidal in attraction.
So yes it can be great for women you've already met to use for value demonstaration and Fluff but don't get
overwhelmed in the cyber era it's just not healthy. Go out and get laid haha
and although yes I have sucsessfully sedcuced women online it's just not as good as kissing a girls warm lips in person while
while the smell of her herbal essance flows through your nostrils haha
keep spittin game guys
your friendly neiborhood pua ~ Bandit~


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Old 01-02-2010, 12:17 PM
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I guess online and text flirting are there to make sure the girl stays warm and open to whatever it is you want with her WHEN you do get to see her... and that always, the goal is to connect physically. Which is why follow-through and meetups are crucial.


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Old 01-02-2010, 12:17 PM
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One of my favorites is:

"I don't always hang out with beautiful women. But when I do, I prefer [girl's name]. Stay gorgeous my friend."

It's a play on the Dos Equis commercial and is really flexible (change the adjectives to funny, smart, exciting etc) and tends to work pretty well. Works even better in person because you can add the accent in with it.


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Old 01-02-2010, 01:08 PM
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Just like what was suggested in that other thread, get a girl texting about what makes her laugh, or what gives her the most fun... and just relate that to you or relate to that. If she talks about massages, tell her you want you've been practicing your effleurage and would she mind if you try it on her?


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Quote:
Originally Posted by TheRealDeal View Post
Yeah txting is great tool good post, been going on for while since like 22nd txting back forth HB shes one these whose shy to talk to on phone so stick to txting both busy over xmas but I've sorted meet coming friday.Most havent txted is 2days full last week which still interested thinking stopping 2days this week, we got good vibe going, would ya's agree that its ok idea to do 2days off?

as I have built good Comfort and attraction,trust etc and qualified her alot even do on txts.

(these 1st two I use all time txtin goes very well)
What sort of trouble are you causing?
Hope yr not misbehaving trouble...if not why?

And I found these long time ago! not sure where give credit for them!
might give some ideas to make up your own do

What are you doing, cutie? :-)
SURPRISE!
Knock knock...
How's my favorite little brat doing?
I just made you open your phone for no reason...looks like I got you in check =]
Hey goof, I bet my weekend can beat up your weekend.
I am luring girls to my house with candy, which do you prefer skittles or M&M's?
Hey..do me a favor and text me right back. Just hi or something. My friends dont believe retards can text. We'll show em lil buddy
I know my math u+i equals 69
Girls are gross...
I hope you are smiling. If not just think of me!
Aliens are coming to abduct all the sexy people off the planet and force them to breed. You should be safe, I just wanted to text to say goodbye.
Remember guys tomorrow is "Hug a retard" day...So don't freak out like you did last year, NO ONE IS TRYING TO HURT YOU!
I just met your twin
I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really good together.
Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met.
Out of all the (first name) (last name)'s I know... I think your my favorite.
You just popped into my head so Hi...now please stay out of there
Sweet dreams, sexy. :-) [name]
Hey I hope you got home safe. [name]
Let's fly to Las Vegas, get married, argue about our third kid's name, divorce, and grow old lonely and depressed
I don't know who you're boyfriend is...but he's not spanking you enough!
I don't think you're ready for this jelly
Awww, you're so sweet. You're making me get diabetes.
I just don't think we should do this anymore...Sometimes you make me feel like I am just a piece of meat.
I was thinking of you...
Something about u seems to always make me smile.


"congratulations"
"for what?" "what did i do?" "why?"
"i was just thinking of u. congratulations =)

if we don't hang out soon then I'm
going to start cheating on you!

Nice post! I am going to steal some of those. Also you are one of about three people to take this thread seriously!


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Old 01-14-2010, 05:29 PM
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Quote:
Yeah txting is great tool good post, been going on for while since like 22nd txting back forth HB shes one these whose shy to talk to on phone so stick to txting both busy over xmas but I've sorted meet coming friday.Most havent txted is 2days full last week which still interested thinking stopping 2days this week, we got good vibe going, would ya's agree that its ok idea to do 2days off?

as I have built good Comfort and attraction,trust etc and qualified her alot even do on txts.
Don't quite understand what you wrote..however, what are the 2 messages you always use that work pretty good?..


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