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oh boy.... i'm in the same boat too i idolize the k close but for an ironic reason. Back in the good ol days when cartoons were on TV and kids would watch it to come up with excellent openers (lol, I still use some of them if i get in a tight squeeze) I was a natural at kissing.... but it all stopped when i got into middle school and learned of diseases ! ever since heath class in middle school, i have stopped and (took a life of a nerd, running from girls ....) now in the game again...

I cant hop through that mental hoop of getting weird diseases from that fag of a teacher talking about "you kiss, you WILL GET STDS" and "girls were in elemtenary schools, in middle school their called SLUTS!"

so i need help with this too.... logically i think about this and it farkS up my emotional lvl and inner game

Loner... methinks you actually need to do more kissing then. Get a girl friend to practice with. Get several girl friends. I mean, aside from possibly Hepatitis B, STDs aren't that easy to catch (I mean, you wouldn't kiss someone with sores right?). You can even kiss someone with HIV and not get it (unless she gives you, what galoons of saliva? haha). So go, get it out of your system. I mean, am not saying you kiss anyone and everyone and feel free to avoid girl with bad teeth and horrible smell. But being this affected by a former health lesson is... well... limiting.

i watched a dude today fail. she moved away quite decisively and he then proceeded in backing out. she was a little flattered but so not into him and he was trying to cover his tracks... it looked bad. then when he started leaving the cafe (she was working there) he didn't leave directly and as he walked past the window he looked in as though he were putting a brave face on dipping out.... it was so AFC

yeah, it was a lesson given to me somewhere within this deep elaborate mating ritual that is my life

the chick has been one of mine for a while and she may have known i was witnessing it. she was certaintly very glad to talk to me after. i don't like chicks being put upon. i still believe strongly in the right to free will and i probably don't get a lot of my targets because i am not certain that they really want to. I like them to make up their own mind - with my cutest presence fresh in their minds - and I get alot of joy out of sleeping with chicks are really into me and enjoying themselves.

If she says no then that is ok and she can walk or if she doesnt stuff me around we can talk. I have no sympathy for the AFC cos he forced himself upon her. I have been in places where that would get one murdered and still that doesn't inspire to allow the babes to make their own mind up that they gotta have me..... I simply looove women.

As a man I get an immense thrill out of making a woman happy and giving her every love and pleasure she would ever want. She just gotta remember she only has 5 or 6 hours then she gotta go

But you know, free will is all good and fantastic but I don't consider it seduction if I wanted the guy right from the start. I dunno, I somehow feel there has to be some amount of convincing and change of mind. I prefer guys who get me interested.

And am not saying I like a guy forcing himself upon me, or crowding me or hovering or whatever else. Just that women may need some help in 'making up their own mind' about wanting a certain guy.

yep i totally agree with u bare legs. that is the dance isn't it...

the enegry pushing and pulling and a bloke who knows his role as a hard loving and good man should be able to take control. You wouldn't respect a wuss.

I stand by free will too. Some chicks might be hot but their personality is so ugly when given free will to express their real selves. To allow a chick to love me and things about me so much that she keeps coming back cos i keep acting as a real man should.... now that is a privelege of being male

You won't get diseases if you are just cautious in doing your thing. STDS are not contracted through kissing. That is why is called Sexually Transmitted Diseases because it is contracted through sexual activities and exposure to body fluids such as semen, vaginal secretions, and blood.

Have candy or mint (no gums pls), offer it to a girl, and then ask to share? Or if a girl pops a mint in her mouth, ask to share and kiss to share.

I know it may sound gross for some but given the right circumstances, it can be quite kinky!!! Plus, you're assured of fresh kissing breath!!!

so........ no one has anything logical (no way of checking for STDs, in other reasons as well as the mouth) about my situation?