fack another failed kiss close

Guys I need help. I can't get over the fear of kiss close. This is the second kiss close I lost grip of. How and when do I fark up? Usually when I think about kissing the girl. Every time I get that gut feeling that I want to kiss close I fark up almost instantly. I'm so worried about offending the girl or feeling awkward that I can't go in.

do you guys have any suggestions on what I can do to counter this fear other than "just do it?" Is there something I can do that can short circuit that mechanism that's screwing up my closes?♦

Ya - quit being a p$$y about it. Girls LOVE to be kissed. Why do you think that you would offend her.

Listen man, girls are SEXUAL creatures just like us. In fact many women are more sexual than you are... it is OK to be sexual, you are not going to offend them.

Do her a favor... and kiss her!

I say "do it" bro. I agree with BP. Girls are also sexual just like us and some are way more than us. If you try to move forward your face before the actual kiss, and she did not move away, it means that she wants to kiss you. I think, if you have developed an attraction, getting into kiss close is easy.

Am sure you have teeth, use breath mints, don't drown a girl with your saliva... so if you're close enough to kiss, just do it. If she does get offended, sorry usually smoothens things out pretty easily. Plus, how else would you master kiss close?

Go fool around with a few other chicks until you are comfortable kissing / making out. Also - I gotta say this girl is going to be a major challenge since it seems you are always thinking about her and placing her on a pedestal.

I think it's the *kiss* you're putting on a pedastal. The kiss is a test, and one of the first, any chick who fails is NOT going to be requized. If you're in kissing distance you shoudl already be toughing her, or have touched her some in a manner that means affection, and hints at, "bizzy, if you don't want whats coming, you need to step out of range or verbally/ physically abort the mission." if you're worried tuck her hair behind her ear, thats classic "pucker up" talk; if her hair is up, look back and forth from her mouth to her eyes. this is classic "it's coming," speak. if she doesn't digress or abort and your STILL nervous in your skin lock in on her eyes, lick your bottom lip with the bottom of your tongue (Not slobbery obvious pornstar move,) then fold said lip into mouth and let it out nice and slow while cocking your head opposite her canter and give it 1.5 seconds. if she hasn't aborted she's begging for it, and that'll stand up in court. lean in and claimed your prize.