fack another failed kiss close

Guys I need help. I can't get over the fear of kiss close. This is the second kiss close I lost grip of. How and when do I fark up? Usually when I think about kissing the girl. Every time I get that gut feeling that I want to kiss close I fark up almost instantly. I'm so worried about offending the girl or feeling awkward that I can't go in.

do you guys have any suggestions on what I can do to counter this fear other than "just do it?" Is there something I can do that can short circuit that mechanism that's screwing up my closes?♦

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Ya - quit being a p$$y about it. Girls LOVE to be kissed. Why do you think that you would offend her.

Listen man, girls are SEXUAL creatures just like us. In fact many women are more sexual than you are... it is OK to be sexual, you are not going to offend them.

Do her a favor... and kiss her!

I say "do it" bro. I agree with BP. Girls are also sexual just like us and some are way more than us. If you try to move forward your face before the actual kiss, and she did not move away, it means that she wants to kiss you. I think, if you have developed an attraction, getting into kiss close is easy.

try to see the girl tomorrow. and tell her that you have to admit that you were thinking about her and you have a christmas gift for her. if she wonders what it is then make her promise to accept it and not get mad....then plant a wet one right on her lips.

sounds stupid but it might work

Am sure you have teeth, use breath mints, don't drown a girl with your saliva... so if you're close enough to kiss, just do it. If she does get offended, sorry usually smoothens things out pretty easily. Plus, how else would you master kiss close?

It'll be difficult because we both have stuff to do now for the break (she's going on a trip). What I could imagine doing is asking her out like in the last few days before we go back and try again then.

I know it all boils down to me just doing it, but I was talking to ragr about this and I told him how I feel chills down my spine literally and I get so nervous every time I think about wanting to kiss her it just makes me loose me cool and I can't think straight.

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Go fool around with a few other chicks until you are comfortable kissing / making out. Also - I gotta say this girl is going to be a major challenge since it seems you are always thinking about her and placing her on a pedestal.

The weird thing is if I'm just playing around with the girl, I can keep my cool. But, once I think about beocoming a bit more serious (hoping to seal the deal), I start to get nervous and "placing her on the pedestal".

I will definitely try out your advice by dating more girls and flirting around with all of them (practice kino) and not worry about kiss close until I've got that part mastered.

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I think it's the *kiss* you're putting on a pedastal. The kiss is a test, and one of the first, any chick who fails is NOT going to be requized. If you're in kissing distance you shoudl already be toughing her, or have touched her some in a manner that means affection, and hints at, "bizzy, if you don't want whats coming, you need to step out of range or verbally/ physically abort the mission." if you're worried tuck her hair behind her ear, thats classic "pucker up" talk; if her hair is up, look back and forth from her mouth to her eyes. this is classic "it's coming," speak. if she doesn't digress or abort and your STILL nervous in your skin lock in on her eyes, lick your bottom lip with the bottom of your tongue (Not slobbery obvious pornstar move,) then fold said lip into mouth and let it out nice and slow while cocking your head opposite her canter and give it 1.5 seconds. if she hasn't aborted she's begging for it, and that'll stand up in court. lean in and claimed your prize.

Thanks for the tests. This will definitely put a different perspective on the kiss aspect of my game. Repped.

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You've seen her often enough already right?

Aside from practicing with other girls... why not just kiss her outright next time you see her? The minute you walk up to her, frame her face a little and just kiss her. Am sure she'd be a little surprised but you'd sense how lingering you can get with her if she starts responding. And then break and just say casually, "Always wanted to do that." and go do the thing that you guys were meant to be doing that time.

After that, you shouldn't have problems kissing her wherever, whenever.

Hey Mystery.... were you able to take advantage of New Year good cheer and kiss closed this girl already?

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Surprisingly women don't freak out about kisses most of the time. Unless you are a total stranger, or they don't like you, they tend to be flattered by an attempt to kiss them, even if they don't want you to kiss them. The worst thing that will happen is she will turn away or pull back a little. In that case there will be a small, awkward moment, in which you should pretend like nothing happened and go on with your conversation. She won't hate you. You will probably get extra points because you showed her that you can be suave and save her from embarrassment in a clutch.

Ah! The kiss! Sweetest of sweet... How I waited many years for my first... and got it an hour before I lost my virginity. What a let-down.

I'm with everyone else and think you should just jump in. I'm sure she's given enough IOIs for you to pick up on, and that tingle down your spine... That's a good thing. That's anticipation, a prelude to a kiss.

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A kiss is a significant sign of submission. When you try to kiss a girl and she kisses you back, it means she is open to you and your plan is working. Although, some girls are very easy in giving a kiss, you'll definitely know if it is real(intimate) or not.

in addition to what everyone else has been saying

Her pulling away is the only thing that can go wrong when you try and kiss her (this may be a test), if she does that just hang in there for another ten minutes, show her that it doesn't affect you, build up more attraction, make her laugh then maybe say stop looking at me like you want to kiss me then give her a smooch!

Yeah, pulling away just might be reflex, especially if she hasn't decided yet if she's kissing you or not. But just don't let go of whatever connection you have established already.

Hey guys, back to report quickly. What I'm about to say would sound pretty disappointing but I'll explain below what happened and why.

Did you kiss close?
No

Did you call her up to attempt for kiss close?
No

Why?
1) I felt a bit AFCish lately

2) I thought about this carefully and she was way too serious for my type (she wasn't really fun to be with when I thought about it carefully).

3) I had lots of dead moments with her compared to other girls.

I know that instinct having read this would be first to reply with "hah! You're just another p*ssy"

Maybe, for this one. But I thought some more and decided she wasn't really worth the time and our attraction really wasn't that strong so the kiss close would've been very awkward. FFS I haven't even placed my arm around her like I did with girl A, kiss close is like a leap.

I have no one to blame but myself, I've set myself up for the friends zone. Thank you all that helped and gave comments. I will use these ideas when I've built another opportunity, but for now, back to working on my inner game.

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just go for it
forget about the outcome and tell yourself that your building a skillset.

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Lolz, next time, don't spend so much energy on a girl you're not really having fun with And I guess not kissing her is good, 'coz if she liked it and you really didn't, then she might expect more or something and you'll be in deeper trouble.