how to deal with eye-contact?

Shes looking into your eyes for 5 seconds? Uhh, you go over and say high and quickly, quickly, jump into rapport.

Now I roll with lots of people, and I position myself in ways to appear as the leader of men, leader of women. So if a girl is eyeing me down, I just wave her over, this doesn't seem to work well alone.

The point is, by eyeing you, she is A) Opening (ok we can jet past a1), B) showing interest (we can jet past A2), c) probably horny. (<- ok, when are women NOT horny? Right!)

Walk up to her and do this:

(Note, this is jumping past a normal Opener, and dhv sequence, because she eyed you, she has already shown interest, otherwise, this might not be the best way to open, unless you are really feeling "on" that night)

PUA : It's too bad you're so hot, you must be boring!
Girl: (if shes eyes you for 5 seconds deep she will bite) I'm not boring, Im fun! (or whatever)
Pua: (some kind of Kino, spin her, or do the gambler dance thing, tell her, "I like to dance, but here is what I do with my dance partner, and shake her by her belt buckle wildyly, and laugh about how everyone else thinks that shes crazy! (this is from gambler), some thing fun and kino, if she does the hand shake thing, grab her hand, put your arm around her waist, and say, "Do you salsa!?", <- also from gambler, whatever, fun kino)
Girl: blah blah blah
Pua: (Introduce yourself to her set and entertain them for a second, this is vital, and move on within the set)


But alot of girls do this thing nowadays, which really just shows that she is used to someone else holding the conversation, so I actually bail on a lot of these girls, from experience, they are usually boring.

PUA : It's too bad you're so hot, you must be boring!
Girl: Yes, I am totally boring
Pua (I point at one of her lady friends) so uhh, who's your friend?

BAM!

(I might edit some of this stuff out, cause I do actually use these canned lines everyday, and I dont want to loose em)

thanks people... btw I saw her yesterday, she wasn't so hot
But I made a mistake for not approaching her. I get eye contacts very often, people say I have beautyful eyes. I need some DG expirience to deal with it and go in.

If she looks fun, flirty enough... i'd probably wink and smile, not in a creepy, gleeful way but more like, you're both sharing a secret. And then mouth something, like, would she meet me outside, or at the bar.

smiling always goes a long way. how to win friends and influence people says that. i find if i am smiling i can get away with saying alot more than i would otherwise.

3s or even if you do stuff it go over and put it back on to her. she is checking you out after all... ask her what the hell is going on??? maybe she likes what she sees??? keep smiling and lead her through it.... she is already keen on buying

Eye contact, smiling, and approach- I think these are good components for a successful sarging in a bar or club. But you must consider first the set. If she is in a set of 4 or 5, it may be difficult to go in and Isolate here from the group, especially if there are all enjoying and laughing at their conversation.

what about when a chick just won't give you eye contact???

well many times girls who give me an eye contact do not want anything, they are just looking. Same goes for those that didn't want to look you in your eyes, it doesn't matter you will not have success with them, it just means it will not be as easy as with others.

We'll if shes not giving you a def eyeing down then there is no interest to be found, cant force the stuff.

Alot of dudes are clueless and its the quickest step for a woman to see if the guy is worthy or not by eye raping him. Most dudes will immediately look away from her glance or get nervous and or physically bothered. Ive seen girls lean across the table eyeing some dude after he thought he was a confident SOB flirting it up, dude immediately looks down and away and became fidgety like he just got a touch of parkinsons disease.

Bottom line is just to follow through with every move. They'll size you up and all you have to do is show that u wont falter to just a smile and glance. Theyll even smile wider and be giving you a harder look once you dive in and open her up. Better get use to it if you looking for signs of success....

i was having a coffee this morning and one of the waitresses was in front of me through the window and she has a great body. she was wearing little shorts and her boss, the owner, stopped what he was doing to check her out.

i had noticed her and was appreciative but i was not horny or drooling like her boss either was or was making out like he was as a has a strange sense of humour and strange barriers with his staff.

it gave me the thought that it is nice to look but there are some ways of looking that are offensive to chicks or blokes. i don't like it when chicks check me out too blatently and i always look at chicks around me and i guess when she notices i try and let our eyes meet. its a nice thing to smile to a stranger..... why not. we are still a free world.

there are some ways of looking at chicks though that if i did it i would expect to be slapped.

this cafe owner reminded me that a woman to me is a person and not an oject.

If it's a case that she was giving him such strong lingering eye contact and she was at that point with only one friend, what do you think would have happened if instead of approaching her he waved her over to the bar/location where he was?

Would this work? Maybe she would hesitate or put up token resistance but if he maintained his cool and just continued waving her over for about half a minute, this would set him up in a much better frame (if it worked) right? maybe even if she didn't come and he made a sort of "forget about it" gesture and walked up and opened a completely different set she'd be left there thinking "damn I missed my chance"...?

Any good?