how to deal with eye-contact?

Last night I went to club, my friend told me that my appearance is very alpha and full of energy, so, instead me opening girls, many girls did Kino openers to me Ok, I'll stop bragging, most of those were not my type. Anyway, the girl I noticed was "the target", my type. She was in 4 set, when they came in. Later, she was with her gfriend, and then we had a deep eye contact for about 5 sec, she was staring at me. Now, to me this is unusual situation since I was facing towards her and she was the one to be opened, not the obstacle (her friend) I usualy open in multiple sets.
My question is, how would you open her? Or in general, how do you open your target after an eye contact with her (especially when they are in the group)? Question includes BL, since I was facing her.
Thanks

Loup

I think you'll get mostly 'walk over and say something'. Maybe don't break eye contact, that's pretty Johnny Depp but I might break EC and give my friends the 'i'll be back' look, while she's looking, and proceed over. As far as what to say, I figure go direct at that point. That's probably the most confident way to go about it. After entry, light Kino and jump right into qualifying her and you're on.

I'd maintain eye contact and ust approach the group in general, engage them, open everyone up so they'd be more likely to let go of the friend am eyeing.

approach.... one way or another i would approach. i like 3s.... even if it takes a little longer or whatever i don't let myself down on the 3 second rule or the basic principle of it.... i know if i have cheated myself

If she is giving you that much eye contact and she doesn't look freaked out, it is the equivalent to a guy stammering because he is so taken by a woman. In other words, you could have just walked up and said something general to the group and then turned and asked a pretty direct opener to the girl. This would have also been a good time to use Gambler's "Hey, how have you been?" Opener. She obviously was interested enough that she would have gone along with it.

thanks. You see in my language an opener "Hey, how have you been?" sounds weird So, what you say is that I was to open them twice?
But no problem in the future

What I am saying is, that you briefly acknowledge the group then turn to the girl. Something as simple as "Hey guys! How's it going?" Then turn to the woman.

It is also strange in English to go up to someone you don't know and say, "Hey, how have you been?" However, most people won't immediately look at you weirdly because they don't want to be rude, and they are afraid that they should know who you are from some past meeting. The people around your target will assume that the woman knows you (because of the opener and here eye contact/ facial expression). Then you can actually break into a quieter voice and start talking to the woman. If it gets awkward, you Eject, no harm. If she likes you, she will play along with the opener you made of knowing her already. By the looks you described, she was totally into you.

thats nice guns, very very nice, the only think i dont like is that my failure is at the girls hands, if she wants to she can reject you easily leaving you with not that many options. still great line if you are facing a very interested girl.

That's why you only use it when:
A. You don't have time to think up a better Opener
B. Pre-Open the woman (with eye contact)
C. She Opens you with eye contact (this scenario)

Also, no credit for me, it all goes to Gambler.

i have to remind myself to hold eyes with her when talking face to face. i find it hard to hold for too long as it frightens me a bit

girl who i got talking today had such large brown chocolate eyes and when i look in a girls eyes they are so open to me as though being a bloke i have total mastery.... it sorta freaks me out.

i feel they trust the good in me more than i do in myself