need some advice on flirting with a girl

01-24-2010, 08:13 PM

Guys, I have been noticing i have a problem..I think too much about something I'm going to say to a girl..is like there is a million things to say, but i want the one that works better, and i can't seem to come up with it at the right time. as an example here is an instant message conversation:

me:you are bored and you haven't cleaned your room yet..lazy girl
Girl:It's your fault
me:lol my fault?
girl:yeah you have me stuck in here talking to you. You are entertaining me
(at this moment I can't think of an awesome response and end up sending something sh1tty):
Me: You blame me about everything lol

(at this point i kick myself)

01-24-2010, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ragr

Guys, I have been noticing i have a problem..I think too much about something I'm going to say to a girl..is like there is a million things to say, but i want the one that works better, and i can't seem to come up with it at the right time. as an example here is an instant message conversation:

me:you are bored and you haven't cleaned your room yet..lazy girl
Girl:It's your fault
me:lol my fault?
girl:yeah you have me stuck in here talking to you. You are entertaining me
(at this moment I can't think of an awesome response and end up sending something Sh1tty):
Me: You blame me about everything lol

(at this point i kick myself)

Tru that bro. I have the same issue right now as well. However, what I would suggest you do is be more relaxed and tell yourself that you're a cocky funny guy.

From what I can tell in that interaction, if I was in your shoes right when she said "you are entertaining me" I would call her on that. I would say something like "entertain you? I thought you were entertaining me. And now because you're bored, you're making ME bored. You're an interesting girl aren't you? Come here, gimme a kiss to spice things up".

01-25-2010, 12:42 AM

If you want to be cocky... a better response would be "well, it's about time a guy didn't bore you to death, you know"

If you want to be a little naughty... a better response would be "well, I can help clean up and you'll finish sooner. But you have to entertain me after?"

If you want to be funny... "that's what you'd be paying me for, but we haven't discussed if it will be cash or something, in kind..."

01-25-2010, 06:41 PM

nah, you guys are going about it all wrong.

If she blames you for it, create something all badass like.

her" it's your fault"

me: "no it's yours for coming to meet me for a drink over at chilli's in a half hour"

her: "wait.. what?"

me: "reservation is under 50Cent, see you there"

OR

define the level of commitment you want from her.

1. do you want to see her
2. do you want to go to her (nah)
3. do you want to bang her right now (usually)

then create a situation or text that situation of how that will come about.

If she does not agree, then bust her on it for being lame and say you are going to grab a drink with a friend then.

Decide if this girl is even worth it, Lust is a hell of a thing, and there are many to lust over...

07-26-2010, 07:13 PM

ok so i wanna know, if you have not really talked to a certain girl and she is friends with you on Facebook is there a good Opener to use in an IM?

07-27-2010, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by ledslayer91

ok so i wanna know, if you have not really talked to a certain girl and she is friends with you on Facebook is there a good Opener to use in an IM?

"You're not getting any thinner." ("younger" can be used to be a little nicer.

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ha. I think I say hella negative sh*t too often. if the girl is less than a HB7 in interested catagory I'll give them make or break sh*t tests al lthe time. It's screening. Only so many hrs, only so many days. Some girls get nothing but ass kissing and not putting them on a pedastool does something internally to them.

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