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Old 02-22-2010, 10:55 PM
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I had an idea for a potentially awesome thread. Here is the deal, I would like people to post exactly one of their best, original techniques in this thread (Okay, you can post more than one, but please only one a post, and let other people post some techniques before you add another). The technique can be anything related to pick-up, but it should be something that, as far as you know, is something you invented and something you have Field Tested. It is totally fine to post something you have already shared before, as this will serve as a central repository for these great tips and techniques. Though great pick-up lines are allowed, I would prefer that this thread focus more on physical/psychological tips and techniques than entirely on clever word openings. My goal is that this thread will contain a bunch of awesome tools that will be immediately available to PUA's of all levels to help them boost their game. Little perks that might take someone years to pick-up by themselves.

Please also try to keep the comment/critiques on other posts, limited to the bottoms of your technique post.

Technique:
One thing that can be very maddening on a first date/meeting, is getting around the table. It is natural for two people to take up the "interview" position at a table when they sit down. If you attempt to immediately sit next to the woman you are talking to, you either need to have immediately high social status or be really smooth otherwise it easily gets awkward. If you don't get around the table, it is difficult to escalate Kino quickly. So what's the trick? Make sure, that when you take the "natural" seating arrangement (across from each other), that you take the seat that gives you the least view of the other people around you. Then early on in the conversation bring up the topic of people watching. Either mention your love for it, or make a little game of trying to read/speak for people around the room. At this point, it is very easy to move yourself around next to the girl on the pretext of "wanting to be able to watch the other people better." Also, you have an easy, fun conversation started with all kinds of potential. Be sure to take advantage of the directional nature of the situation to put your arm around the girl and "point" her attention to an interesting group in the area. As a bonus tip: I find that is you can often elicit positive reactions by comparing the woman to other people around the room. For instance, "See the girl over there? You can totally tell that she wants that dude. I bet she has a naughty streak. I can totally see a bit of that in you!"


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Old 02-23-2010, 09:57 PM
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Great idea. Let's hope it picks up.

I love using a point system with girls. If she says/does something I like, she gets points and she loses them if she says/does something I dislike. When I first bring up the point system I tell them that when they reach 5 points they get to touch my shoulder.
I've had a girl ask me "...well? How many points do I get for this?" after she gave me head. It was awesome.


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Old 02-24-2010, 02:45 PM
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grab her hands and caress and massage all while triangle gazing (look at eyes then lips then at eyes back at lips etc.) then say" your hands are soft and elegant, i wonder if your lips are too" then go in for it.
works like a charm, i've done it when im alone with her and also when im in the club when Sexual Tension is high and were both lookin for an excuse to do what is on both our minds.


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Old 02-26-2010, 06:55 PM
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This is a technique I use for cold approaching in a public place - not necessarily a club, but a workplace, bookstore, coffee shop, whatever.

When you see a girl you like, continue to look at her until she notices you and makes eye contact. When she does, smile. If she smiles back, she's open to being approached. If she doesn't she's not interested. If the non-verbal communication starts with her smiling back, then go ahead and open her with your favorite opener.

This technique is great for guys who might suffer from Approach Anxiety or don't like doing cold approaches, because it gives you a good indication of how open the girl is to meeting you with very little investment or risk.

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Old 03-01-2010, 11:33 AM
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This is a technique I use for cold approaching in a public place - not necessarily a club, but a workplace, bookstore, coffee shop, whatever.

When you see a girl you like, continue to look at her until she notices you and makes eye contact. When she does, smile. If she smiles back, she's open to being approached. If she doesn't she's not interested. If the non-verbal communication starts with her smiling back, then go ahead and open her with your favorite opener.

This technique is great for guys who might suffer from Approach Anxiety or don't like doing cold approaches, because it gives you a good indication of how open the girl is to meeting you with very little investment or risk.

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awesome tip thundercat.
will put it on my list
thanks


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Old 12-13-2010, 12:55 PM
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I've used this on a few different girls and gotten everything from a peck on the cheek to a full on make out session.

If I've been making good progress with a girl I've just met and she starts smoking a cigarette (the usual social etiquette seems to be to offer me one) I will say something like "Well I don't normally smoke but I'll trade you a kiss for a cigarette." (add a cheeky grin or a wink for effect and it seems to do the trick)


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Old 12-27-2010, 11:15 PM
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We're breaking up txting technique:

This part I didn't invent, but I'll describe it for those who don't know what it is:

"The we're breaking up" game. Find something (small and minor), that you disagree with the girl over. The more absurd the better. Tell her that since you can't reconcile your opinions on the matter, your breaking up with her. Then proceed to play the game by humorously dividing up "property". One of my favorites is, "I'm going to keep the dog, but you can have the morgage".

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First wait for her to say something like "That's too bad we're breaking up". If she doesn't you can ilicit the response by saying something like "Well...I guess we're really over..." Whatever she says, say "Actually I was angling for hot make-up sex, but I guess that's out of the question since you caught me with the maid."

This will generally get a laugh, and if she is into you, she will continue to play the game and/or give you some hint that there's a possibility. Then you start talking about the location. I usually like to use something like, "Well what do you think? The bedroom is more romantic, but the kitchen table could be fun."

From there you can easily transistion to favorite positions, and then discribe exactly what you would do to her.

This has worked time and time again from me. It's great for a txt game because there is no context required, it is fun and keeps them hooked. It doesn't require any immediate responses, and it is super easy to sexually escalate with almost no risk. One of my best techniques. Workes especially well when you are texting after an initial meet.


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very good text technique. good sexual Escalation over text. a roleplay that transitions to something sexual. i do the same thing.

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Old 01-07-2011, 08:46 PM
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I call it the out of 10 question game.
Once i have an ioi and a little bit of flirting i use this game.
It goes as follows:
Do you want to play a fun game?
answer (usually): "ok"
Latest response: "What game? X" (through whats app on iphone)
if no you can say "sorry, i thought you were fun..."
my response:" I pick a subject and you have to rate yourself out of 10. x"
her response: "Is this game rude?haha x"
Mine: "Depends on the subject. You want to play? x"
hers: "Go then x"
This is all what i got 3 days ago. I am now going to meet up tomorrow and i know what is going to happen..... you will see why!
The main aspect of the questioning of the game is to ask questions that are at first quite subtle but breaking down barriers and getting them to imagine themsleves in certain situations so i guess is using elements of NLP (which i study although at novice level)
Therefore you start at a very basic level (bear in mind there MUST be an ioi) i.e. "out of 10 how good would you rate youself at kissing?"
This immediately gets the girl thinking about kissing... hopefully you.
You can give 2 responses as they will generally rate themselves high or low.
If low, you can say a few different things...... "i'm sure you are being modest", "yeah you look like you need a coach" (depends how confident you are... where you take this is up to you.
If high... "yeah right, in my experience no one is that good" will match their ego and they may want to compete. "show me then" (different kiss close".
You can then go on th further questions on the following subjects which ascend in risk but also reward..........
Lying (i like this one as it adds to the Mystery of the game)
Telling jokes (girls are notoriously bad, if they rate themselves get them to tell you one! They are proving their worth to you!)
Being cheeky.
Dancing (right environment they can show you)
Sexy dancing (see above.............)
Blow jobs (need to time this right)
MOST RECENT ONE TRIED TO PASS............ MY LINE:
"You can't pass once in the game sorry didn't I tell you?"
Anyway, rather tahn describe a whole conversation, here is one on a chat with a girl from work who has shown me quite big ioi.
IT IS IN REVERSE ORDER SO START AT THE BOTTOM.
COMMENTS AND FEEDBACK ARE APPRECIATED!!
04/01/2011 20:23:41: HER: 4? X
04/01/2011 20:23:36: HER: That's hard,I don't think I'm very sexy x
04/01/2011 20:23:10: ME: Sexy dancing x
04/01/2011 20:23:03: HER: 9 then x
04/01/2011 20:22:46: ME: I'd say 9 from my point of view! X
04/01/2011 20:22:23: HER: Being cheeky...as in how? X
04/01/2011 20:22:22: ME: Oh ok x
04/01/2011 20:22:12: HER: Change telling jokes to 5...I'm not that bad...and lying to 5 too,I'm not a great liar,I was messing with u x
04/01/2011 20:21:25: ME: Being cheeky x
04/01/2011 20:21:15: ME: Ok x
04/01/2011 20:21:10: HER: 2 x
04/01/2011 20:20:53: ME: Telling jokes x
04/01/2011 20:20:34: ME: Really that's interesting....... x
04/01/2011 20:20:17: HER: 10 x
04/01/2011 20:20:10: ME: Lying x
04/01/2011 20:20:08: HER: Next x
04/01/2011 20:20:00: ME: I agree ;-) x
04/01/2011 20:19:51: HER: Erm 9 x
04/01/2011 20:19:35: ME: Kissing x
04/01/2011 20:19:28: HER: Go then x
04/01/2011 20:19:18: ME: Depends on the subject. You want to play? x
04/01/2011 20:18:58: HER: Is this game rude?haha x
04/01/2011 20:18:38: ME: I pick a subject and you have to rate yourself out of 10. x
04/01/2011 20:18:07: HER: What game? x
04/01/2011 20:17:53: ME: Let's play a game..... x


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This is for Flakes. I've started a thread with this and post it on another thread:

Bullet-proof Anti-Flaking Technique


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