modify your compliments

so over the past year i've talked to alot of women and what i've noticed is that
if you tell them they're beautiful, that exact word "beautiful" or hot, cute, smokin', it really brings the conversation to a stop!

does this mean they're not into you when this happens? no not at all!
.. i mean it could but we won't get into that right now.

the reason you're game is torn to the ground with the women you compiment in such a way is because it:

- is something they hear constantly, especially if they are incredibly good lookin'

-they sometimes interperet it in a way that they think you have low self esteem.. ok lemme explain! it's ok to be in awe when a beautiful girl talks to you , but you need to act like her beauty does not phase you. ever notice the manager at say hooters, or the bouncer at a Strip Club is really comfortable around all the gorgeous women? that's what you need to convey.

ok so now what you clicked on this bulletin for!

let them know you like their style, and if you have to let them know they're attractive just say "you're a real headturner".

that's something i came up with and used a couple times, and the response is still a bit shaky but it isn't anywhere near as awkward. probably because it's something they've never heard before.

just let them know you think they're unique..
sometimes i tell a girl she's bubbly and it's fun to be around her, but only if she is actaully bubbly.
understand?
the basis of this bulletin is do not use the looks compliments.
maybe i'm wrong, but i just wanted to share my thoughts with this community.

One that I came up with recently, (although, its nothing new) is to compliment the way they carry themselves.

- "I admire the way you carry yourself"
- "I just had to say, I love the way you carry yourself".

Its pretty similar to complimenting their energy. I have a hard time complimenting someones 'energy' though, cuz it sounds too 'Woo Woo' to me. Unless I was in a yoga class or something, then it would be fine.

now i like that! that's good, outta curiosity what happens when you compliment women on their looks??
maybe i'm just doin' it wrong hahah

I agree with your initial post. Don't compliment their looks. Mostly because it doesn't lead anywhere. I try not to do it. If I do, its usually a slip of the tongue. In that case you need to transiton to something else quickly.

Actually, the line: "I like your style" has been one of my longest running compliments that I give out.

If they are really looking stunning, I might qualify my statement by telling them that I just had to tell them they look stunning, amazing, whatever. A trick I might use is even to tell them that I'm not trying to hit on them, but I felt compelled to say something to them. Then I'll just plow forward from there (which is essentially me "hitting on them" & running game).

that's very clever, dude! we've gotta talk some time over a private message or two on here.

Sure. If there's anything you think I can help you out with. Feel free to let me know.

BTW, I'm pretty much a "mack in progress" as well.

When I compliment a women on her looks, it always ends with a but, an example, and my German wing can confirm this, I like short petite girls with big tits and good eyes, that is what I look for, I met a girl at a club in Germany, I told her "You know what, you are short and have very beutiful eyes, but......this room is filled with that, can you tell me 3 things that make you special?" Very mystery method, so I took her out on a date another night, I did get a bj but that was it, but here is the thing, I ddnt realize how hot she was untill the day 2, and, she was a guitar player for a band (Hint: The first word of the band is a type of precious metal, the end is "ettes" like Bronzettes or whatever).

But the above post is right "you are hot" instantly becomes " I am a player", "I dont know what you are doing, but your energy is just pulling me in! STOP IT!!" makes you fun and creative.

Be fun and creative, you little player.....