Confidence

This is just another thing I have been doing recently that ties into confidence.

When I get a text from a girl or in the midst of a conversation I will call them by a name that only a gf/bf type relationship would allow use of.

Examples:
Her: Hey what up?
Me: Hey babe, I'm painting a tree (or whatever else you may do), what about you?

Her: The sky is green (or any other comment you know is wrong)
Me: Well sweetheart, the sky is actually blue.


Does anyone else do this? I've found it super nice because if your confidence is high when you say it then there is no awkwardness and it can make her feel more comfortable.

Anyway if you don't do this try it next time you get the chance, I promise you will have good results.

I do this all the time. Treating her like shes already your girlfriend usually works well. Not only does this make you look confident but it also makes her feel good... who doesnt like that?

use your discretion... it can make her uncomfortable. first things first and that is eye contact. i got to remember to look her in the eye and i was reminded only yesterday when i ran into a past flame who wasted a lot of my time and i was not in the mood to see her. she was dirty on me and not only did i not want her sh1t, but i had been right when i last saw her and she will never get it despite her spiritual and moral high ground.

as i left, and she was having breakfast with some other bloke, i stared her straight down the gun and said, "See you later." She held my gaze smiling back and said, "See you babe."

I could have left that situation on her bad side for deleting her from facebook after I had pissed off a lot of her inconsequential friends (and this was all training grounds), but I left it leaving her smiling as though he may be a bastard but I would do it again. And I am leaving the door open.

All because of eye contact. They only thing I did in that situation different from any others is I looked her in the eye and pierced her. I had exactly the same attitude in both scenarios and my thoughts were no different. I didn't pin her back with a threatening look. I just held my intent that I had been doing the right thing as I knew in what went between us and I reckon she saw it in my eyes and she liked it