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Originally Posted by Kid.Quix Hey guys,
Most of the time when i'm talking to a girl, a friend or someone i'm trying to flirt with, i go blank and there's awkward silence. I have asked all the questions i could think of such as "how are you?" "what have you been up to?" those basic stuff, but after all those questions, i can't think of any more topics to talk about.
Are there any "opinion questions" or more interesting questions i can keep at the back of my mind when i go blank?
eg. "hey, i need to get your opinion on something. what do you think about long distance relationships cause my friend's girl is leaving the country"
- those things. it gets the flow of conversation going and more ideas come out. it makes the girl want to speak her mind |
First off, try to stay away from boring sh1t like the above. I know, i know, there's "nothing to say"
i
get it
start thinking of a conversation as more of a
vibe and less of a "conversation"
If your mind goes blank talk about something random, something that has fun written all over it.
I like to bring up random sh1t when i'm in
set.
o.k. here's a couple of good examples for you...
you: blah blah blah
her: o.k.
you: (mind goes blank....) you know what's cool as hell? halloween, I mean what other day can you dress up like a ho and not get called out on it?
her: blah blah blah something about how chicks dont dress like ho's on halloween
from here, you need to play on the
vibe she gives out rather than the
words that come out of her mouth. If she's smiling and having a good time with the conversation bust on her a little bit. If she's pissed then tell her she's adorable when she's mad and
Calibrate