annoying frickin sticking point!

okay, I've benn practicing a decent amour on alot of different ppl. I met alot of new girls w potential and all the while I've been fixing a tweaking my method on how I do it. but one (HB7) is goin Kino right away, usually I built up my Comfort by talking to them for awhile then proceed to this but w her I tense up and kinda just sit there holding her hand lika dumbass. I have no idea what to do or where to go from there considering that there is no previous build up so there's nothin really for me to talk to her about or neg her or anything. I need alot of ways to get by this so please help me out.

You can always find a neg, you could throw her hand away and be like this sh!t isnt free.

But what i would do is not neg her, but esculate her. If she is going Kino like that right off the bat, run the question game on her and get it going sexually. Then you can phase shift and kclose her. After that if you keep your foot on the gas i imagine you can get a full close out of her if you want it.

At that point where you are in, and you are getting tons of IOIs and kino relax. Dont so much worry about your tricks just hold your frame and be yourself. Dont let her steal your frame.

Be alpha and go get it.

can I get an example on how exactly I should esculate her? I honestly don't know how the 5questions game could get it sexual, I've only ever really shot for # closes, so I'm now kinda trying my myself at the Sexual Tension

I'm not talking about styles 5 question thing. I have and do use that bout not in this situation. What I'm talking about I think I got it from one if bills blogs about a date structure. Forgive me bill I can't remeber if it was yours it Nick sparks.... Either way it's basically where you play a game with them where y'all ask each other questions back and forth and you have to tell the truth. But they can't ask the same question twice so if you aski it they can't ask you the same. So you start off playful to get them comfortable then you can switch to sexual. This works like a charm cause it gets sex in their head. I will almost always ask them if they like rough sex, Whatever they say I neg. Creates back and forth. Forces them to invest and let's control the frame. Usually some good conversation thread will come off of it.

If you qualify her properly and then create esculation a kclose should be in the bag.

ok, Im being held back ALOT by Approach Anxiety, it's a total moodkill for my mojo, is there any ways for me to get better at dealin with it?