joeys nite out:)?

okay, I went to a chill party my friend told me about. I get there and I find my bud, who's my 'wing', except for the fact that he knows nothing about puas or anything. so we meet up and start talkin to these chicks that I totally blow it with with the cheating gf Opener. so I recover and move on. he ends up makin out w the first target and I drift over to his sister and her friends, I kinda know her because she was there wen I went to get my lip pierced at her house(I was scared) but I used that as a opener and eventually started talkin to her and her friends. she was my target but I guessed I negged her too much and she was sold at no deal. so I kinda flirted with the group just talkin about stuff completely bein theist alive person in the circle. and I guess I find myself talkin to the sisters friend(she had alot of piercings) so wen I first met her I negged her sayin she reminded me of one of the ghost from 13ghosts so I guess she warmed up too me too cause I talked about my job in LA(were in a suburb) and I ask if she's a city girl and she says yea totally. so from there we talk and I do the cube and damn it all my ride gets there. so I conclude the cube(total success) and I say she's a intresting person, and ask for her #. she doesn't have a phone but uses the sisters phone to txt. so I get that and leave with a hug(probly shouldve pushed for a kiss close in retrospect) and so here I am. I know I did almost everything right to 'pierceings' but it was unintetional. wat advice can I get. ANYTHING is appreciated thanks

First advice, negs are to be used on girls who are getting to confident on you and HB10`s. No need on average chicks. Be charming and nice, but playfull and funny. You could get a kiss imedietly just by getting in and saying " YOU`RE AWESOME, HI 5!" Then continuing : Today is my bday and since you`re so awesome you`ll be my bday date of the night, wheres my kiss? either A shes gonna kiss you there or shes gonna challange you. If shes challenging you cause shes over confident, neg her then kiss her right after the neg. CLOW . shes in your pocket. Either that work with hot and colds.

haha no negs work on all girls it shows your not scared to diagree or play around. when you to nice she will think you manipulative and sometimes needy. so teasing and negging are completely fine.

I have to agree with crob here. I use negs all the time. Its more of how many or how rough I get with them. A 10 is going to take a lot of negging, a 7 one or two will do the trick. Got to find the balance. Its called calibration.

“YOU`RE AWESOME, HI 5!" Then continuing: Today is my bday and since you`re so awesome you`ll be my bday date of the night, wheres my kiss?”

This is not going to work on a 10. Maybe a 6 or 7 but its going to display to much interest to quickly. If you did with in a way where you disqualified yourself then yeah it would probly work. Maybe something like, “man your awesome, to bad your not my type” or something like that idk. But to much up front is not going to land you the 10s you want. Stay away from direct compliments, and never complement her on her looks, complement her on her attitude, energy, vibe or whatever just not her looks.
You don’t want to be the other guy, you can be well dressed and smooth, but still be far from being a PUA.

okay, well I'm trying to get ahold of her on myspace, I left off rite after my interpretation of the cube(which was rite ofcourse) and now I'm tryin to light up her interest for me again. so wat should I say/do?