Letting women know about others?

was writing to one from the cafe when the other one came in to work. me and the first girl go there for tea but her and the waitress are yet to meet. whilst writing to the first i treated her like a friend in the email saying that the waitress has been flirting with me now i aint getting much....

at least the first one knows who some of the other chicks i see are is one thing i figure. secondly when she is there with me next i want to see how they both play it cos i am not worried about them having a go at me for it - i dont have the slightest problem with it and i dont have time for each of these chicks to individually play me off against others for their own purposes.

i also want the first one to know that if she is putting the LJBF thing on me there are consequences in that i will not hang around for her and if my needs are met by women wanting her out of the way then great i am really happy with LJBF too

I think the best way is to paly it situationally.

-Is she Hot/ High ocnfidence?
OR
Decent but low confidence.


And i think the best way really is to say yeah...im seeing someone but i dont think its going anywhere...along those lines.


But then Again i really believe in Mystery's method.
Pre-selection is huge boys.

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enter a mold without being caged in it.

playing it situationally sounds good, ie playing by ear.

will probably be in the same setting with both of them tomorrow night. one has said she doesnt want to be with me and i dont entirely believe that. she has no right of objection though when the waitress is all over me the 'good friend' will probably laugh at what a smart ass i am...

the waitress may of course say who is this... but i have created this scene before with an an old older gf and a young hot little waitress. the little waitress sulked and my gf noticed she had a crush on me and started coaching her how to get at me... that older one had been around though and was very experienced as a groupie etc... and she liked that her man had 18 year old girls interested in him. she loved the feeling that she was in her 40's, hot, and could still get a younger bloke that even younger girls want

all about appealing to the female ego???

these dual induction type scenarios are perhaps largely set up by our attitude

So true. Remember boys, what a woman says and does are two different things haha... or in this case what she says, and how she feels.

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enter a mold without being caged in it.

true.

i stood up the Friend. went elsewhere and dropped into the cafe where i saw the one i been gaming. she was a bit stand offish and questioned what i said a few times. i had afternoon breakfast and a cuppa and then when i went i said to her, "you have asked me to repeat myself several times today..."

"i am a bit deaf today," she said

i said that it was as if she were asking me to rethink what i said because she didnt agree and was trying to make me look like a d1ckhead... "sweetheart," i said "its not like that. you can insult me but dont call me stupid too"

she got the message and i created a bit of distance again cos she was getting in close to me and tried playing back on me as though i were chasing her. i am to an honest extent but i will not be made to look an idiot by her and she got that.

had my Pivot had been there she may have been punished. girl on girl between them interests me...

next time i see the waitress i am gonna keep my place. the friend and i are arranging another catch up next week

i have been seen at that cafe now with a few girls all pretty hot