Too Strong?

I was wondering if this text is sent was too strong. I have been talking to this girl off and on all weekend and Sunday i was having a good conversation with her that had been going nowhere so i wanted to kind of end it. I hadn't acutally hung out with her yet but i wanted to this weekend.
Anyways here's the text:

"Well its too bad we didnt chill this weekend, but its alright though you didn't know what you were missing out on...i forgive you. haha jk shoot me a text sometime, (nickname i made for her), and maybe i'll consider hanging out with u again"

I thought it was pretty smooth at the time but she didnt text anything back and now it makes me wonder if it was a little too strong.

Did she flak on you this weekend?

lol yeah a little too straight forward. you tried to play it off but didnt do so hot. maybe something funny and not so strong would have worked.

“Ok flaky mcflakerson what’s the deal? You know they have support groups for this kind of thing right? lol…seriously though just let me know if you’re not going to be able to make it cause that is not cool and you seem like a cool cat. I would hate to have to divorce you so soon."

that might work a little better cause it has that type of mood thats its no big deal but still not cool. and then you false disqualify her but letting her know she needs to earn your attention or you will move on. haha good luck