I went to a music festival with a girl I've been okay-friends with fr a while, and upon arriving we grabbed some food and sat down to eat before our concert came on. During our conversation (which stayed fairly strong thru the night; no real awkward breaks or pauses) I told her a story that ended with me telling my mom, "no, playing guitar does not get you automatic ass." my lady friend asked me "oh so you don't get it automatically?" I responded saying "well, if j lowered my standards, I probably could, but no way am I doing that." She proceeded to ask me what my standards are, and I told her they include looks but also specific personality aspects (I can't stand a girl who can't make me laugh, for instance). We finished eating, met up with two of her friends and walked around some with them. Those two left to go see their show so I was alone again withthis girl going to our show. As we stood around waiting for the show, we talked and I countered her question asking what her standards were for guys. She listed off intelligence, humor, athleticism, etc. Due to the nature of the festival and people pushing thru crowds, she was standing close in front of me and a little to the side, both facing the stage. While sometimes out of necessity, there was a fairly constant contact of her back on my chest. Then out of nowhere at all, she says to me "maybe you don't have to lower your standards, maybe you just have to be better." I briefly tried to get her to explain herself, but she wouldn't so I let it go after five seconds. She didn't ever really dance or dance with me; I'm betting I enjoyed the concert more than she did. After the show, she took me by the hand to lead me thru crowds to the next stage, and there was a point we were still holding hands without any crowd to navigate. I dropped her off at her house at the end of the night and was given a large hug, and we reaffirmed future plans to have Noodles + Co. together and finish watching a movie.
This all went down Saturday, I've had no contact with her since on purpose, as I don't know what to do, and I don't wantto act without purpose and understanding of what I'm doing. Can smeone help me decipher what she means or what she was doing and how I should proceed?
Many thanks in advance, Grant.