Women Do Not Like Compliments

Why do women always say they love compliments, but when you give them compliments they turn away? Its very strange, I can meet a girl on facebook and sweet talk her all day and she is all into me, but if I tell a girl in person that she is pretty I get a cold shoulder. Is it timing? What is your opinion? Should compliments be replaced with negs instead?

they love compliments when they deserve it and when its not about their looks,only the ones with low self esteem like being complimented on there looks, HB's here it a million times a day, Facebook compliments gives of a stalkers-ish vibe, negs arent my thing,you can do that but dont hurt her feelings, pua miss use negs and it becomes offensive , you can lose a set or target using the wrong neg at the wrong time, really risky, push and pull or cocky and funny instead of negs

Thanks. =)

Well then would it be a good idea to ask if they get a lot of compliments? I mean in a non obvious way of course. for example "Wow, you did great on whatever. I bet you get all kinds of compliments though".

thats great, once they're complete comfortable with you ,but put a question into it , or make it cock and funny or insert a push n pull for example
cocky and funny - "wow that looks great on you, I bet it looks better new(good time to Kino after saying this) but Im sure you get loads of compliments but Ive been meaning to ask what you got going on other then your looks?"

that was cocky and funny followed by a question that would make her qualify herself to you

Its like giving a dog a treat without making it do a trick. Make them earn it and they will appreciate it a lot more. If you just throw them out there all the time then she will see you as weak and run all over you. There is nothing wrong with telling a woman she looks sexy, but its when she thinks she looks like trash and your just saying it so you can get in her pants that she doesn’t like it. In your first interactions with a woman I wouldn’t compliment her on her looks. Try deeper things like her energy, her wit, her laugh, anything but her looks. If you don’t use negs then don’t start now. They are the dark hole of PU. rAFC’s use them all the time and use them the wrong way and will just look like a jerk. Just be playful and bust her balls a bit and you will get the same effect.

^^^^ very well put, I also like what viruscast mentioned.

Humans in general what to be appreciated

a compliment is a form of appreciation; which by saying I appreciated how you look, our your vibe, or etc.

showing appreciation is 3 times better than any compliment!

let your appreciation shine through!

instead of saying:

"you have a nice vibe"

say

"I really apreciate your outlook on life, you have a nice vibe"


the point is to use the word apreciate

I feel that the best reactions to compliments I have gotten were not from the physical attributes of the woman, but rather the inner attributes that can be seen outwardly. What I mean is her sense of style, her look/feel, her personality. Numerous times I have complimented a girl on her clothing style. I have never gotten a negative reaction to it.

Think of it as this... How long do women take to get ready to go out. Hours. By complimenting them on their beauty or hotness, you aren't telling them anything different then they already know. They also didn't have to spend 2 hours on their face and how it looks. Instead, tell her you like her style of clothing, her dress, her skirt, her hair style. This makes them feel you appreciate what they do for themselves.
It isn't really about them, but it is at the same time. A girl's style is important to who she is inside. Females (and males) wear things and dress certain ways to express who they are individually and internally.

Compliments work, in the right way and the right dose. Everything in moderation with a little bit of craft and wit.

Yeah, don't compliment her until you at least F* Close her. Then compliment something she did well in bed. And if not, well, kick her to the curb.