newb needs advice

I have this girl I meet online playing video games. I have plans to meet her in 12 days. I just want to make sure that everything that can happen will happen.

Ill give you a brief recap

play video games online together. - drink and hang out
she thinks i am to competitive ? dont know what to do about that

she says she doesnt want to have sex because it ruins relationships if you do it to early, but when she asked me what type of hotel room i was getting she specifically asked me how many beds i was getting ?_< and i told her what ever your comfortable with. she said 1 but dont tell anyone.

We talked so much in the first 15 days it was pretty ridiculous. Now i feel like i am having trouble engaging her.

I want to know something thats not corny on how I can make her be dying to hear back from me.

We have skyped, texted, talked on the phone. I dont want to come off as clingy even though I might have a little before. I want to change my image. I was gone for 5 days and sent her a message and she said stuff about missing me. I dont know. I am confused

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Ignore her. Tell her you'll be busy till you guys meet up. Sounds like you're blowing out your spark and the window of opportunity is closing.

If she says she doesn't wanna hook up. Tell her you're not that easy, and to keep dreaming. Confident challenges always work.

Learn how to seduce her with your hands and lips. So when the times right you'll be in bed seducing her and she'll be begging u to date her.

Have fun.