how to tell the difference between legit flirt and friendly flirt

when u do decide it's time to flirt(wich would be 2 encounters or more away) push and pull her i think that would be the best thing to do then text her this:
Did you hear?! aliens are coming to earth. yes, this is no joke. they have come to gather all the sexy ass people! u will be fine, im just texting to say goodbye.

Ok sounds like a plan thanks for the help

there is no simple way to explain what is happening.

i think what is the safe zone from this advance is that you both have a strange sort of brother-sister relationship.i HAVE INDEED SEEN intimate relationships sprout from these. so right now, if I were you, i WOULD NOT let this slip by. just from this type of lifestyle you both share, make something happen, but not clearly on your part, of course.

Make a move, but one that seems like she wanted to do it too, like a "it just sort of happened." moment especially since she has a boyfriend or w/e.

Since she does act the way she does around you, her defenses are damn near none with you. Just do that subtle signaling, then raise her Sexual Tension, eventually ALONE.

what do you mean subtle signaling (sorry i like to get every little detail i can) and im not very good at the Sexual Tension i just never know how to do it discretely

Stuff like this, i recommend watching all parts of disc 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5DsVwYqVhdU

Thanks man that actually helped a lot who is that btw

Richard La Ruina aka Gambler

Haha no way I was actually looking at something by that guy I just didn't know what he looked like ill check out more of his stuff