What is stopping you from meeting and attracting an amazing girlfriend?

"for one she calls me almost every night, when ever shes home from college we always end up being around each other either if its with people or by ourselfs, she comes to visit me at work,at partys she stands really close to me, and when ever she sleeps over she always ends up sleeping in the same bed as me."

I definitely have some thoughts here.

There's still plenty of room for optimism. The fact that you guys have already made out indicates she is 1) physically attracted to you and 2) comfortable around you. At some point though, it sounds like you lost that momentum of attraction. It also sounds as if you're now dangerously close to falling into the friend zone. (You may already have! Hope I'm wrong though). You don't want to be here. You need to recapture that sense of attraction with her and you have to act fast.

Firstly, just going off what you've written thus far - I'd say you're spending FAR too much time with her. I'd recommend you immediately decrease the amount of time you spend with her and radically cut all forms of communication with her. Don't cut her off entirely, but act as if you're busy and have other stuff going on. It also wouldn't hurt you to start casually referring to other women. Let her know, through implication, that you have lots of options on the table and that if she doesn't act soon, you'll move on to one (or more) other girls. Keep us updated and good luck.

Well whats stopping me is im stuck in Townsville for a few more days so i plan to go to the mall each day and get womens opinion on how better to improve myself and get more clothing. if anything its just getting out and better improving my people skills for when i move down south =]