What to Do When You Feel Yourself Losing Power

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cheers eric. thanks. thats a solid case you make.
it relates to my current situation. initially i was doing well with regular emails and she was responding when we met. there have been a few chapters around the same theme now

lately i have not been getting great response and have been trying to guage her and this evening i decided i dont care and told her so within context of the relationship. that is, i told her what i want and what i care about and then to conclude i said that it really doesn't matter to me what she does or doesnt do, does or doesnt think.

she knows i see other women and we are really just dating and flirting alot. playing a few love games though we both know that we aren't really overly serious.

i dont want to lost touch with the connection we have though and i need to keep feeling for it by letting go

does this make sense? where would others go from here?