Getting this girl who likes to only have a good time...

Been trying to hook up with a friend of my buddy's girlfriend (I'm kinda picky and she is cool along with looks) and she told me today that she really likes being single and just having a good time. That's cool by me, but was just wondering some things I could do to get her out of that "single" state of mind and see me as a possible boyfriend in the future. I also am not 100% sure How To know If A Girl Likes You, so advice on that would be great also!

-Simp

giving her the sex of her life, if you are good at it. if not and shes only looking for a good time its not going to be easy. Also being the most amazing guy she has been with, like make her have lots of fun times not easy either.

I had already been thinking about that but was just seeing if anyone knew some other tricks I could do while hanging out at the bar or some things I could say to convey that until I can seal the deal.

Well if she is your buddys girlfriend and she is telling you that she likes being single and what not, she isn’t looking for a relationship she is looking for a hook up. First off I don’t mess with my friends girls… that can just get bad quickly. Second if you do your just going to be a sport fark. I would enjoy that while it lasted and just go from there. I can tell you how to build attraction but I cant tell you how to change the way someone thinks.

Lets hear some of those attraction tips.

Edit: The girl is a friend of the girl my buddy dates.

Attraction comes from multiple places. PUA’s call them attraction circuits. Think of theses like a button that you need to push. Push each button throughout the interaction and you going to build attraction. Some of the most common ones are :

Saftey- women must feel safe with you. This is a huge priorty. I nomaly call this more Comfort than saftery but that’s what it boils down to. So you have to demonstrate that you are a safe guy, not some crazy serial killer who is going to harm her.

Be the prize- Be the guy in the room that everyone wants to know. Be the life of the party, the leader of men is always the leader of women so in other words be alpha! Always alpha!

Be different- You must always be different from other guys who approach her. Do this by not being needy, not buying drinks (at least at first), making her laugh her ass off, hell some guys use magic tricks, some tell crazy stories just be different. Enjoy it

Commonalities- This is more of an understanding of what she saying. So if she says something you agree with you can talk about that and build off that. Just don’t be the guy who agrees with her on everything! If you do that you will be just like every other guy out there.

Ambition- Girls love guys who know what they want and have goals. Both in life and in a career. One of the best words of advise I have ever heard came from playboy (steve nash) on a podcast he did where he talked about this very issue. If you don’t know what you want out of life, make it your goal right now to try to learn it. In other words, make it you life goal to find your purpose. And be able to express that to women. If you can do this its freaking fire in the field. Women love it and eat it up. Done obsess over you job, but express that you have a good job that you love, and that you are stable.

Vulnerability- a lot of puas forget about this one. Be willing to open up to her just a little bit to she that you are human and are a little bit vulnerable. This helps create intrigue with her about you almost like you creating a bit of mystery in you life. Don’t get all soft with her that would be a beta move, but just a little glimpse into you life that will show her you are human, and she will typical respond in kind.

Kino- kino is not so much an attraction switch as it is a method of physical Escalation. As the man its your job to push the interaction forward. So if your not touching her at all then you not going to build attraction. Then you’ll get thrown into the friends zone and none of us wan that for you.

Negs- This disqualifies you and shows that you are not overly needy and interested in her. The goal of a neg is to get the girl to work for you. So if you neg her she will chase after you to prove she isn’t a low value person.

This is very oldschool PU theory but is very applicable to what you are looking for. If we boil it down it comes to this: be fun, be different, and enjoy you interaction. Try to enrich your life with the women you approach as you enrich their lives as well.

Dude I can go on and on about body language and kino and whatnot. But all hat info is on this site. Dig around and look for some of it. If you have questions ask them. Hit me up on PM get at crob, bill Prjav, any of the regulars. We are here to help.