Trying to find a girl woth making your GF.

So I've been in the game for a few years. The first 3-4 short term relationships were when i was young and I pretty much got owned in all of them. Either got friend zoned or girls cheated etc etc. Then last year I met an awesome chick a few months after one of these sh1tty short term relationships. This girl was perfect for me. Unfortunately, I has gotten so fed up with girls that i was an asshole to her and was seeing other girls when I was with her and ruined it. This was a pretty big turning point. I realised that I dont reallly wanna be an asshole. The problem is I went through a few girls right after her that just didnt compare and I continued just playing the field. I finally met a girl 2 months ago, who I thought was perfect except she's not down for a relationship. I'm 21 now and I've never had a girlfriend even though I've been somewhat succesful on the just playing the game part and hooking up with chicks. Right now after I hadnt talked to the most recent girl in 2 weeks she invited me to this event where she proceeded to hook up with another dude and I had this other chick i knew there (a Stripper) lol so i hooked up with her somewhat in spite of this situation. Im tired of this bullsh1t and just want something normal. I really like to party I DJ and stuff but I really would like to experience a relationship with a quality girl (hot, sense of humor, smart, not gonna be full of drama, etc.) Anyone got any advice on this matter. I could try to go out of my scene and date a girl who's more straightedge but I dont think it would work out. Any advice appreciated.

Lemme just start off by saying that I like how you pointed out that being A-hole wasn't you at all. I always believe we're capable of being one but is it really what we are?

Anyways I just think it takes time but I think you're on the right direction by having fun in the meantime when the right girl comes along. Of course we have a certain build on how our girlfriend should be and that's good because you know exactly what you're looking for. You sound like you're very social so you're going to have plenty of opportunities to meet more women in your life and if you are looking for someone keep yourself posted. Feel on these girls (mentally of course) and see who is to your liking and see if she would be willing to commit with a guy like yourself.