College chick

Hey Guys I'm fairly new to these here forums, and I needed some help. I'm a natural good looking guy as told by many but I just lack amazing pickup and social skills when it comes to girls. There's this girl in my college class who is like those small girls that you wanna just pick up and ya know. So yeah I see her in college all the time whenever I walk by her she really just looks at me for a while walking by and even in class. So today after class I was walking next to her and I just started a conversation with you get the book and whatever we exchanged names. What should I do next to really just get that number and to hang out I usually never ask for their number I just go hey put your number in my phone.

don't think about it. just do that.

yes that may be an easy solution but as the saying goes, different strokes for different folks.... "I just go hey put your number in my phone" not every woman would respond to that and even the ones that do don't always give out their # to your response. women respon to body language and common interests...... so build ah lil confidence- give her a warm smile and a compliment, let her talk &&& you listen. give a sinecer reply/comment. then take it from there with either "oh i really like so on & so on.... are you interested in that too",

P.S. - do try to pick something you think she might be interested in.

College? Wtf just invite her to a party, get drunk, and hook up like everybody else

I have the same problem. I am no expert but when i think about it i am pretty good at getting women. All you need to do from my personal experience, is act like her. Relate to her using Ethos and Use Pathos to show her your side. Make sure you relate to her firs tthough.

Relate : Make sure the way she looks and feels and stares, is simalar to yours, that way she will feel closer to you and will feel like she has found someone that is like her and shares her passion on the world. girls like this alot, (dont mistake it for beeing friendly, just a person who understand what she does because you might do the same, MIGHT...)

Pathos - Show youreself, do not relate as much, show something that adds on to you that she does not do, but would find cool. like if she likes lets say dogs, say that you helped out a dog shelter, even though they do not relate in a small sence, it shows that you care about things that she loves, this will surely get you her, number.

WOW.. im good, i should start writing letters to my self haha. Good luck to ya buddy, hope my advice was helpfull .

Sincerely Don

You really have to gauge her Comfort levels - a one on one date that quickly can be risky. I would ask her what she's doing one weekend and invite her to a party/hang out.

^^ LOL this and make fun of her for always staring at you. next time you're walking together;

"why are you always staring at me, its kind of awkward, if you wanted my number you could just ask"

obviously say this in a joking (I caught you) kind of way.

Then hand her your phone .

FS

be forward, figure outta creative way to meet her. maybe even bump into her by "accident"(must be done smoothly), then notice a detail and start conversation over it.

then be forward and say "i gotta go but you sound like fun chick, can we grab a drink or something", and get the number. don't forget to send atleast a 3 or 4 playful text exchanges within half an hour of getting her number so she remembers you and you can get a sense where youre going with her.

if shes responds positively, your chances of scoring a date are good, if she doesn't, don't push it. those "nice" girls that respond positively to everyone are actually the easiest to get a date with.

i cant understand almost anything in what you typed in my honest opinion.

From what i can gather, i dont understand what you want... it worked and you have her contact number which is the base to start from...

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