so for the past couple of months, this girl (well call her Clara) has started talking with me a whole bunch. all of my friends are now telling me that shes totally inot me and tht i should go get her but im getting signals that shes not into me at all...
So heres the background. It started in september, and i really hadnt talked to her almost ever before that. We went to a big house party where apparently she was trying to get one of my really good friends. she said he was super hot and whatnot just like most girls do,then again most girls think that im as goodlooking as him but idk. so i was pressuring her all night hitting on her, flirting with her, and making fun of her for trying to go for my friend. i wasnt trying to pick her up at this point, i just thought it was funny. I did a little routine where we take drunk selfies so that we can look at how bad they are tomorrow and have something to get things going the next day. She continuosly came up to me throughout the night to talk to me about things other then my friend.
From then on things were quite bizarre between her and I. She calls me at least twice a week to talk now and at school she kinda hangs off of me and comes and gives me hugs all the time.
A week after the first party there was a second party. i didn't really talk to her all that much, but at the end of the night she like booked it up to me, convinced me to not hook up with one of her friends who's an HB7, and then gave me like the biggest hug everrrrrr. So im still trying to play it cool and act like i really don't care that much. I show her that im busy and cant be spending all my time with her cause i have TONS of other friends or girls or whatnot...ya know just a little dhv. then i leave with my friends. She shouts a nickname at me then runs away laughing a little.
During the next weeks she always asks me out to lunch with her. She is alwasy the one initiating the conversation. Except now she usually talks about other guys she's trying to pick up... i usually take this as a sh1t test. she talks about these guys but she never actually really talks to them, or when she does, she hits on them a little or teases them then comes back to me and flirts with me more. its really confusing to me. is she trying to DHV to me? I have no clue.
This girl seems to me like shes very insecure. Ive stopped talking to her about her guy issues, as a Freeze Out, and she still talks to me all the time. I still rarely initiate. she also always asks me if people talk about her and what they say about her. Carla has issues with lots of people it seems. I also feel like her asking me that is a sh1t test. Anyone wanna help me pass?
So very recently theres been a large rumour at school going around saying that her and i are having a thing. She kinda laughed about it a little, but she deny's it. I really need some advice guys. Do i go for her? and How do i get a girl like this?