I dont mean to blab too much on my first post but here goes.
Met this girl last april. We were hooking up for a while and having sex. Fast forward to the fall of the next year and we were basically dating without a label for 3 months. Hookups, movies, sleeping together without sex, you name it we did it.
Now around december she had a freak out and was a little cold to me. We had a talk and she said she was scared to date me because she was "fresh" out of her relationship and wasnt sure if she could trust me or let her guard down.
I put fresh in quotes because she had broken up with her boyfriend (who treated her like sh1t and cheated all the time) the previous january before we met. She went to spain for the summer single but when she got back in august the ex told her he loved her and wanted to get back together. They got back together for a week and then he got a new gf and moved to florida for 6 months with her.
So, after our talk in december i said take winter break (were in college) to think about it and if you think you can try it out with me well work on it. The next day i left to go to my friends house 4 hours away. That night she drove over to ask me out and completley surprised me.
So we were officially dating for 3 and a half months..never fought, did all the couple type stuff. I met her parents she met mine the whole nine yards.
Last week she acted real cold to me, not mean just distant, and i asked for a talk, we talked and she said she still wasnt over her ex, not that she wanted to be with him, but she could tell i loved her and couldnt emotionally commit with the feelings she had and we called it quits. This girl and I were completely compatible as far as our social lives went, and like i said we never fought, argued, or had a mishap. Were done now and im opting for the no contact way of getting over her but should she come to me do I act friendly?
If she wants to get back together I cant decide if i'd even consider it. How would I know she'd be different and is it worth the trouble?