Hi guys I'm new here and I just wanted some advice. I was in a 1 year relationship, which ended in early September (she broke up with me), we didn't talk for 4 months then ended up hooking up again over christmas break (I go to university). On new year's, she let her other ex finger her and i promptly ended things, and now I have not talked to her since new years (another 4 months). I've drunk texted her twice, to which she did not respond. I have no idea if she's seeing anyone else or anything since we've completely cut contact. I am wondering if there is a way to get her back. Thank you very much for any advice.
Some background on our breakup: She wanted to 'be free' and said i did not 'make her happy'. she ended up having sex with another guy in november (before we hooked up again) a few times but said she thought of me during it (this led to the hooking up). We have had so much drama, from me being desperate to have her back at the beginning of the breakup, to her wanting me back in december but then ending things before I could take her back. I was beta in the relationship, but have really changed over the past few months. I at least want her to know how I've changed. We had a long distance relationship, I used to drive up to her city (45min drive) every weekend last year. Please ask if there is anything more you need to know in order to assist me. Thanks again.