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    Default The 'Crying' Issue

    I think some of us have been there during a breakup...

    Can you properly get back your dignity and alpha status in a girl's eye if you started crying during the breakup? I know the type of behaviour, body language and general inner game which makes you respected, admired and eventually loved, but can you regain your status after a not-so-manly moment?

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    Default Re: The 'Crying' Issue

    Wow.. I wouldn't recommend any guy get involved with the crying thing. Perhaps some can't help it in the moment, yet it speaks volumes to the girl. I'd suspect most subconsciously would write the man off as a pure beta.

    That said, it may be possible to rebound from this, yet will be tougher. If the action caused the woman to completely dismiss you, then it will be ultra tough. You have to really study & put into play every aspect of the process of GF retreival. Good luck man! PS: Never cry again in this situation.

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    Default Re: The 'Crying' Issue

    Yes it is possible. In fact crying may even help your chances....

    Because you cried it definitely made you look beta. It also shows her that you NEED her. The funny thing is....as soon as you start to show that you DON'T need her this will throw her off and she will wonder if you've moved on and even if there's another woman in the picture.

    This is not guaranteed, but I have seen it (and been through it myself I have to admit) and this is usually what happens when the guy finally lets go and starts to move on. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: The 'Crying' Issue

    EXTENTION ON BATMAN COMMENT: crying shows sensetivety and i'm seeing more and more girls liking that in a man, especially the rich snobbier ones. To be honest when i get hurt i talk it out or become cold, so i cant give advice how to use but i thought i would share my observation to give you the hope for your goal.

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: The 'Crying' Issue

    If you start to behave like a real alpha from here on in, in time, she'll see that you're changed and start wondering about what you're like now and - indeed, like BatMan said - if there's another woman in the picture. That'll peak her curiosity and might even make her initiate contact.


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