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    Mopinion is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Lost attraction - How to get my ex back

    Hello all.
    So its been 8 days since I've broken up with my ex. And this is how it happened:
    I did too much for her all the time, always being there for her and putting her needs infront of mine. I realize how big of a mistake that was. She started to first lose sexual interest. Her libido declined dramatically. She still cared about me and called me atleast 2-3 times a day and constantly texted. But it seemed like I was more of a friend than her boyfriend at that point. Eight days ago, I couldn't take it anymore (her not being attracted to me) so i broke up with her because she couldn't (and she knows that). When I was breaking up with her, she asked what if she changed her mind 2 weeks or even 2 months in, what if i find someone else during that time. I told her i can't promise that will not happen because i can't predict the future etc.

    Since the break up, we have talked once about it (6 days ago).
    Since then, I haven't initiated contact with her.
    We texted once so she can drop my stuff off (which she has yet to do).
    We saw each other at a club on Thursday night. I said hi to her and all of her friends and pretty much proceeded to ignore her and did my own thing for the rest of the night.
    Next day (Friday) she fb chatted me saying that yesterday was kind of weird. I inquired and left it at that. (5 line conversation)

    We have alot of mutual friends, we go to the same clubs and graduation parties are rolling around so we are bound to see each other.

    I know she still greatly cares about me and likes me but I killed the attraction, that was the only problem.

    I want her back... I want her to want me back...
    What could or should I do?

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    Mopinion is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Lost attraction - How to get my ex back

    Also, does anyone know of a one to one guidance program for getting your ex back?
    As in, a PUA that you can communicate directly with to help you through the process?
    I have purchased the "Relationship Rewind" program but my situation does not really follow into any of the categories, so it was not really a useful read....

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    jtut21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Lost attraction - How to get my ex back

    Spending time apart could be exactly what your relationship needs. It is a good possibility that she will realize how much she loves having you around. For the next two weeks it is to your advantage to avoid contact with her so that you can get your head clear and initiate a psychological trigger of her wanting what she can't have. Keep yourself busy during this time and when she tries contacting you at the end of this period take things a bit slower.


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