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    ArnoldTheMan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I even bother?

    It has been five days since I broke up with my ex and I am still trying to forget her. I have this sinking feeling in my chest, that keeps me in a depressed mood and from falling asleep. I am not sure what to do next, please help me decide...

    Here is what happened: We got into an argument last week and she went back to her place. Later that night she went out with a group of our friends, without telling me. My friend told me that someone told him that they saw her making out with a random dude who was buying her drinks... After I found out I ended our relationship on FB, and immediately deleted all of our pics on Facebook and blocked her Facebook and her number.

    My heart was broken and I suffered for the first two days because me and this girl really loved each other and pretty much lived together and did everything together. A few days later though it really felt like I got over her, until today when I kind of cheated with the freeze and looked at her Facebook from a different account. She posted something like "whatever is true will always find its place" and "I wish we could just get away and start all over". Again, my chest sank and now I can't get this girl out of my head. Then at 3 AM last night I get a call, from her roommate asking me to call her, I replied by asking him not to call me anymore.

    Yet still I can't get this girl out of my mind. I worked out, went shopping, jogged, but I keep thinking that I made a mistake and rushed with the break up and we should have at least had a conversation. What she did remains wrong, but is it to late for a talk or should I just swallow the pain and keep moving on?

    Please, give me advice.

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    Ne0-l-Wulf is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Should I even bother?

    You've done the right thing b/c your instincts were telling you that something may potentially hurt you, emotionally. So in order to dump your ex-lover(sorry), I suggest talking to friends or making new friends without bringing up you know who b/c well if you do that then the problem will never go away. Also if want, just focus on a new dream girl that you never met yet(This will help cuz the person you might come across will be far more better). I know getting over a gal is the most difficult thing in the world but its a natural process so if you move forward, you'll reach to a new level.

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    jtut21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Should I even bother?

    It's easy to make a quick decision when life presents a challenging circumstance in our lives like you have had to face. Sounds like you still love this girl and she has left somewhat of a void in your life for the time being. Unfortunately sometimes people make mistakes and if you can find that you can forgive her than perhaps you should try and work things out. However, if this is the case I would recommend that you take things slow and begin allowing her to build trust back.

    All the best,

    Josh

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    Default Re: Should I even bother?

    Yes you did the right thing. Now your in control. Were there any warning signs things wern't going well or did this just happen out of the blue? You have to take a step back and think is she really the fantastic person you imagine her to be or do all of her actions just not add up? When you love someone sometimes it blinds you to how they really are. Give her one more chance if it doesn't work ditch her.


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