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    Default Sex with the ex

    Hey guys,

    So my ex broke up with me around 5 months ago. We have been in contact since and have met up numerous times although she had started seeing someone else.

    Anyway, the last few nights she has txt me asking what I was up to and saying she thinks I should come round for a bit of fun. I declined as she lives quite far and frankly couldn't be bothered with the journey at that time of night. She was really pushing for me to go round there though. I asked why she was so desperate to see me and she said that she thought it would be nice to see me before she went on holiday. I offered to go round in the morning before work which she agreed but then she started to backtrack saying maybe we should wait til she got back from holiday cos she didn't want to lead me on. She said what if she got with someone on holiday to which I asked what if I got with someone this weekend (I'm going on a stag do). It seems like she's trying to initiate something between us again but wants the freedom to potentially have fun on her holiday, something I told her I wasn't bothered about if we did sleep together as I had no expectations of anything coming of it.

    What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Sex with the ex

    I would have gone round and shagged her. But I'm also kind of a no u-turn type of guy. Think about your future not the past.

    Sounds like she wants some training in before her holiday

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    Default Re: Sex with the ex

    Haha more than likely!

    I would have gone round there but I would prefer it to be on my terms.

    Thing is, she called me later that night for a chat cos she couldn't sleep... something tells me it's not just about the sex. Although that might just be me.

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    Default Re: Sex with the ex

    GET OUT NOW. Didn't read thread. But trust me, if you are having sex shit gets serious if it isn't a One Night Stand. I did the same thing and it was possibly the biggest mistake ever.

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    Default Re: Sex with the ex

    It's very difficult to stop shit getting serious (especially since she's an ex).

    imo, refrain from talking about feelings and stuff and only text her every now and then. Fuck her then don't talk to her for a week or so .etc

    Trying to reason with her into a relationship revolving purely around sex will more than likely end up with her bailing on you altogether.


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