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    Default Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    So me and my ex had been with each other for 2 1/2 years. Then we had a bad month and had a few small arguments then she decided that she didn't feel the same anymore and didn't want a boyfriend.
    Afterwards for the next month we talked loads and she would call me in the morning and call me after she finished work just to talk. During this time I was to needy and told I missed her and loved her and loads more cringe worthy stuff in the hope she felt the same way due to all the contact however she said she still doesnt want a boyfriend.

    What do i do now?
    I have already made the mistake of being soppy and saying I regret the last couple of months and wish we could be back together.
    So how should i proceed from here?

    Thanks for the help

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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    You bend down, pick up what little dignity you have left, and walk away.

    If it didn't work the first time, it's not going to work the second. You need only look at marriage to prove that. You had a good things but now it's a time past. Take it with a grain of salt. Utilize what you have learned from this relationship and apply it to your future ones.

    Better yourself, and you're not going to do that by sitting around waiting.
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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    Its just i do still love her and want to be with her.
    And she even said the past 2 years have been amazing and just those rough months were bad and if they hadn't of happend we would still be happy and together. It's my fault mainly though as had a real busy couple of months in my last job as it was my final months before I left the company and moved out of the area so I partly took out some of the stress on her.
    Is there no way to get this relationship fire rekindled.

    I do have stuff in my life too I just started up my own company which is going very well right now I have an active social life.

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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    Also what should i do when she contacts me then?
    Like ringing me after work and stuff? Do I just answer and be normal or do I ignore it

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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    She Just called me after work again. I answered and she was really happy and bouncy and giggly when talking to me.

    What do I do help!!!!

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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    If she means that much to you just tell her you want to get back together. If it works out, great. If it doesn't, you know what to do.
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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    I see you have replied to a few threads on this forum. Pretty much all saying man up and go find a new one.

    I appreciate the advice but was looking for pua ways or systems to get back with not just to move on as I know that one already.
    Thanks for the input though bro

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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    I understand what you want but I'm looking out for your best interest. As I have gotten to know the guys on here they would all say the same thing. This is Dr. Phil material, not PUA. Wanting your ex back in itself is beta. If you ever want to become good with women you must develop the proper state of mind. There is no magic pill, regardless of what every marketing strategy tells you. I know because I've read and bought a majority of them. I know what you want to hear, and I'll tell you because you have proven persistent, however I've been there and know the outcomes. I gave you the best possible option. It is your choice to choose these others, but I will tell you odds are things won't last and you'll end up wasting your time. If it works out, honestly I'm really happy for you and you're more than welcome to rub it in my face.

    [Edit] Instead of rewriting something extremely similiar, I'm just going to direct you to the original source. In the members section I have written a post on The friend zone, and within that there is a link to my personal blog. The latter part of the post will answer your question as it is still applicable to your situation.

    Notes: I recommend the first method.
    When you start the withdrawal and she takes action to get you back, don't jump at the first opportunity. If you give in that easily she won't appreciate you. Make her work for you again.

    I apologize if I had been a dick and hope this works for you. Please let me know.
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    Default Re: Want my ex of a 2 1/2 year relationship

    Not at all man sorry if I was rude to you!
    You have far more knowledge and experience than me with this sorta shit!
    Will have a look at your stuff and keep you updated!
    Thanks for the help


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