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    hyde is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I delete my ex from my Facebook page.

    I got with my first real girlfriend at 20 before I knew anything about PUA. She was really hot for me but I wasn't as into her. I can remember her crying in a club when we first got to-gather because she had been dancing with me and she thought I didn't fancy her. I found her and kissed her and she instantly stopped crying. At the end of the night I walked her half way home because I still wasn't sure about her. In the end long story short, I started going out with her but at first I wasn't very keen to call her my girlfriend. After a while, like two weeks or so I stopped contacting her. I wanted us just to drift apart. This was really stupid of me because it gave her the chance to dump me first. I can remember on valentines day her getting very upset because I said I wasn't sure if I loved her yet(this was when we were still going out). I made it up the next day though with flowers. I got on ok with her family but there wasn't a fantastic connection due to me being quite a quiet person. I think she also realised I wasn't very socially connected which was a bit of a turn off for her. I kind of turned her off me, myself on purpose as well. Anyway when we broke up. I asked her not to hate me and not to kiss anyone else I front of me. which she later did.
    I told her a few home truths but I remained friends with her even when she got a new boyfriend. I never deleted her from my Facebook which now I'm thinking may have been a big mistake. I spoke to her recently after not having spoken to her for a year or so. I did this through Facebook. I picked my time carefully and contacted her the day after my birthday so she would see all the messages my friends had left on my wall making me look popular. The message i sent her was 'how have you been?' in her reply she called me babe which pissed me off and she didn't exscalate the number of x's from her 1 to the 2 I put down. So I didn't reply to her last post. I think she lost respect for me when I didn't freeze her out of my life as soon as we broke up ages ago. I never used to dream about her while or before we were going out but after we broke up she haunted me in my sleep. She is single now but meets up with another ex-boyfriend occasionally. She has never done that with me maybe I should just cut off contact with her. Maybe her attraction to me was only sexual. I friend with her brother and sister on Facebook and have never deleted anyone and I always except friend requests from people I know because I think it's mean not to. What is a good course of action?

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    Default Re: Should I delete my ex from my Facebook page.

    Delete them from your Facebook; delete them from your life. Out of sight out of mind.
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    Default Re: Should I delete my ex from my Facebook page.

    You don't love her and don't want to go out with her but you want her to see how popular you are? *poof* delete.

    My first LTR after I broke up with her told me 'your memories are now in a filing cabinet I will never open, the only way I can move on from you is to forget you completely'. Not a literal filing cabinet, it was a metaphor. I got a little sentimental at times about her initially but what she did was good for both of us in the long run.

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    Default Re: Should I delete my ex from my Facebook page.

    I remember the last LTR I got out of my mother asked me what I was going to do with all of mementos. I said I was going to throw them away, which I did. I tossed it all in the dumpster. She asked why.

    What was I going to do? Make a poster? Put it all in a box to show my next girlfriend? Give it all back to her? She didn't want it either. It was trash, so that's where it went.
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    Default Re: Should I delete my ex from my Facebook page.

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    Put it all in a box to show my next girlfriend?
    Haha that would be fun to watch.

    One of my buddies is in a LTR. He's got 60 video tapes of ex's . Causes him all sorts of problems. He never actually watches them either.

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    Default Re: Should I delete my ex from my Facebook page.

    Thanks guys. This was a very hard thing for me to do but I've done it! I remember when I first deleted her number and our entire text history went with it. It was sad but also a big relief. Hopefully I won't bump into her all over the place. I should have put the last nail in the coffin a long time ago but hoped we could be friends. We went through so much to gather for nothing and that was hard for me to except but I had to do it. Best of luck to anyone else who was in the same position as me.

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    Default Re: Should I delete my ex from my Facebook page.

    Good work son. Here's a tip for the future: picking up girls is only half the equation. Learn how to also keep girls and how to break off with them too. Full circle.

    This is true from my heart - I've only once in my life had a girl break up with me and I was 14 at the time. I can be a hopeless romantic at times but I usually get what I want and I have no bad blood with any ex. It's a fantastic position to be in. Full circle is harmony. Make the world a better place.


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