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Thread: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

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    Default So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    Are you sure? Why, because you love her? Because things were great and you miss how she made you feel? Because there was a REASON that you two broke up that has since been fixed or no longer exists anymore? Because she was the best youíll ever have? Come on, keep them coming. Iím sure no one has heard them before.

    You think you love her, but are you sure you even know what that means? Tell me, what does it MEAN that you love her? That she makes you happier than anyone else ever will? How do you know that? Have you gone out and met at least a dozen other women who couldnít compare, or have you just sat at home wallowing in self-pity while the world passed you by? I donít know Man, sounds like youíre just a beta bitch slave to your emotions.

    Of course things were great. That IS why you dated her, right? But youíre only focusing on the good things instead of all the sh1tty parts. The little fights. How she didnít appreciate you. Maybe if you started focusing on the reasons you broke up you would change your mind. Of course you donít want to do that, but you should.

    You think because the problem is gone or has been fixed that things will work out this time, but the truth is if they were going to work out you would have worked through them. You didnít, and now that time has passed. When you were together, you grew together; now that youíre apart, youíll grow apart. You may think you know her better than anyone else, but reconsider the fact that you might not know her at all anymore.

    The best youíll ever have? Seriously? Have some pride. Know what youíre worth. You can and will do better. Your limitations only come from yourself, so stop that and let yourself reach full potential.
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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    Well said and put...I honestly never thought of looking at it that way...the part about focusing on the bad and not the good. Just a few days ago i Went all AFC cuz I was thinking about all the good times...But now that ive been thinking about the shitty parts like you mentioned. Im actually glad baby mama an I broke up...Thats a great mind set you have their.
    A man is but a product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes -Mahatma Gandhi

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    Great post. Sometimes I think I can't find someone better, but then I realize, if I can find her in the first place, why not someone similar, except more compatible?

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    Read up boys! Hey FauxPas here. Eat it up, feel it, internalize it, and live it. Cody knows his stuff!! We can learn a hell of a lot from this young buck! Look up more of his posts, he's thoughtful, and insightful! And best of all, he is here for us to learn from, just like so many others! (My God, it sounds like I have a man crush on him! Ha, ha!) Well I guess what I'm saying is... thanks to all! I really view this as a Brotherhood I got your back, one for all, and all for one! Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    This is true story :P Thx Cody for this, now i understand much more than before

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    i freaking reakon - 6 post a day about getting you're ex back, at first i didnt mind, but when you type in www.puaforums.com is there getting your ex back listed in any part between www and .com, No, I'm so sick of it, this site has a purpose, and so do relationship thearpist but they are not one and the same. So stop you AFC's
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    My favorite of the "get over it" threads. Dating the same girl twice is like rereading a book, you already know how it ends and the good parts are less exciting
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    Most men would rather deny a hard truth than face it....when I forget about my ex's they always come back. When you stay occupied and make yourself a better man you won't want them back. Then... they come back

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    Thanks man I really needed to read that!!! You rock!

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    Default Re: So You Think You Want Your Ex Back

    " You think because the problem is gone or has been fixed that things a work out this time, but the truth is if they were going to work out you would have worked through them"

    Thank you Cody and the rest who have posted in relation to the primary post. Evolution is a necessity we can either embrace it in our favour or waste away playing victim. Victims do not have options, winners create opportunity.


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