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    Default Getting back with ex who recently texted me?

    My ex broke up with me after 18 months because she fell out of love with me but wishes to stay friends. I told her i cannot be her friend and just agreed with the breakup and left. A day later she phones me and starts crying telling me how much she misses me and how lonely she feels but she still kept talking about us being friends. I took the no contact approach and its been about 2 weeks now. She recently texted me asking me how i am but i choose not to respond. What chances do i have/should i do?

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    Default Re: Getting back with ex who recently texted me?

    Hi James, I think you should respond to her text. Be casual but friendly and suggest meeting up. Don't expect too much at this stage, but as long as you are in touch with her, even just as a friend there will always be a chance that you may get back together in the future. She obviously misses you, so this a good sign. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.

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    Default Re: Getting back with ex who recently texted me?

    You have excellent chances based on what I've heard so far. Give her space and make her do the chasing. Women love it when your a puzzle that they can't figure out and that's exactly what you are accomplishing by going nc. She expects you to be ruined by the break-up and you are not acting like you are so she is stunned. Give her time. I can't stress that enough. She needs to miss you like crazy. Be aloof and unavailable to her for about three to four weeks and she will be eating granola out of your hand like a wild deer. You are the hunter. Don't forget that.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Getting back with ex who recently texted me?

    Its alright if she contacts you. Keep it light with no expectancy. Its crucial that you avoid all relationship talk and that you sound happy. Let it be known to her (without rubbing it in her face) that you are having a good time without her. If she starts relationship talk then just let her lead the conversation. Your responses should consist of "Okays" and "I understand." End the conversation first and tell her you will call her later then wait a day or two.

    When people "fall out of love" its usually that they lost attraction. Maybe you spent everyday together and smothered each other. So the space will help create the room needed to build that attraction again. So like liukang said, you want to be the puzzle she wants to solve. You have to stimulate her mind by being a mystery.


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