I post once a while ago and got some great opinions. Just curious as to what you think my ex is trying to achieve.
She broke of our relationship Jan 10. We kept in touch off and on for maybe a couple of mths, only because I was trying to get her back, I decided not be friends with her and that was it. I did no contacted back & forth several times mostly with FB. Deleting her, then adding her, deleting her, then adding her. Just had a f*&*^%ing hard time trying to get over her.
She is with her ex before me, she has married him & they now have another child. She had an 8 yr old with him , this was well before she met me. Anyway, if you find my last posts you will see the story. Im really well off financially, own my own biz etc. She has been a nurse , with no collage, so maybe shes just making avreage because she has only been a nurse for 2 yrs. So, her man makes really no money & she carries the family unless thats chged, not sure. Amyway, I will say, it is true that I do miss her, the sex was fantastic!!! Her face is really attractive, but since her second child her body is not so much. I did see her from a distance going to a store, so thats how I know.
So, yes its been over two yrs and I do miss her but will not ever consider going back with of course, not now! But im curious as to what you may think she's up to. She's about 24 yrs younger then me by the way. back when we were first seeing eachother she posted a small "posted note " on Myspace. She that it represented us and she would keep it posted as long as we'er together. Around end of last yr, I saw her car drive past my house several times, this went on for about a month. Nothing after that until around this past March. She keeps her MYspace page up, but its just got old pics of her from around the time we were together and some time before that. So, I decided to check it out in Jan 12 this yr. I saw that the posted note of "ours" that she said was ours had reappeared. Then a few days after that I noticed her car driving past my house, on regular bases. Her car was going past my home about 2-3 times a week which I thought was unusual. Then I began to see it on saturdays! Athough I have not seen it recently within the last 3 weeks.
The facts are, I live in an area where there are very few homes and its kind of a counrty road. You can drive to one end which take you to a road that will take you to a highway or the other end which takes you to shopping centers. She lives about 20 miles from me in an really poor development. Now she does go to a gym which is near me. I know this because her living & gym circumstances have not changed. I know her car and her tag#, her glass is dark tho, so I cannot see that its her, maybe him , who knows, but I doubt that. She was over my house a lot! She knows where I live which is a corner lot rt on the road. She can easly see my home just driving by.
So, seeing her car & seeing the posted note up on her Myspace. I texed her "hello". No reply. I texed her again after I saw her car going past my home, "shouldn't drive so fast, you'll hurt yourself" , with no reply back at all. I waited about a week then emailed her saying, Hi, just wanted to see how you're doing. Hope things are good". No reply back at all. This all took place about a month ago.
Then I did somthing I guess was really stupid!, not sure. It was completely innocent tho. I saw her sister in a club last yr and said hello and we had a friendly talk. hadn't seen her since. So, about 3 weeks ago her sister name and pic came up when I was inputting someone elses name in FB. So, I clicked on her page, I emailed her and said: Hi, your name just came up on my Fb. remember me? Just wanted to say hello. So, last week I got to thinking, this bs! Why am I in this again, not sure what this girl is thinking but I should be kicking myself in the head for allowing myself to sucked into all this agiain. So, I deleted all of her friends, inother words I blocked them all. I blocked her, unless she gets a fake page she cant see me at all. But, dont ask me why, I didn't block her sister.
I went onto her sisters page last ngith and apparently she blocked me. Big deal, I dont care, but I just dont want her sister to think im stalking her. It really was meant to just be a friendly email. I got rid of her emails from 2 yrs ago, all th pics are gone , ebverything.
But yet, that stupid posted note is still up on her website! So, is she crazy, is she hinting with the drive bys, what is it guys, what do u think is going on?