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    Default What should I do in this situation??

    Hey guys, so my girlfriend and I were dating for almost 3 months, but then she broke up with me this past Sunday saying she didn't realize till now that she wasn't ready for a serious relationship, and she said she needs time to be herself again. She still has feelings for me and she said that she never wants to lose me but for the time being she just needs some time to herself. What should I do? I know that I have to give her space and everything, but when would be the right time to start talking to her again? I don't want to fade away from her life. Please reply, thanks!

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    Default Re: What should I do in this situation??

    Depends on what you want man. Do you want to be just friends with her or do you want to get back in a relationship with her?
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    Default Re: What should I do in this situation??

    I want to get back into the relationship with her at some point, just don't know when the right time is..

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    Default Re: What should I do in this situation??

    Okay, in that case. Id say start dating, alot. Have multiple girls your dating at the same time. Show her your a sexual being. Start treating her like a friend, the way you treat your guy friends is how your going to have to treat her. Im not saying this works for every situation, but becuz your head over heels for her shes probably used to you being all over her. This will knock her off her center and start her chasing you.
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    Default Re: What should I do in this situation??

    Hmm. This seems kind of risky. I feel like if I do that, she'll just assume that I don't want anything to do with her.. Theres gotta be some way I can just stay as her friend for now but not act too clingy, like how often I should text her so that I stay on her mind.

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    Default Re: What should I do in this situation??

    Trust me you will be in her mind even if you are not contacting her. She will be wondering why you haven't talked to her and if you are seeing other women. All of this from you doing nothing. After a break up the best thing is to let her come to you. Any chasing on your end will run the risk of pushing her even further away from you and in turn would make you try harder. All the way up until you are obsessed and that will ruin any chances of getting back with her. Remember you can't control a person, only influence. So you can only do so much and the rest will be up to her. Again....trust us when we say DO NO CONTACT HER. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: What should I do in this situation??

    Yeah I haven't talked to her since, but she texted me about an hour ago... And I'm just making small talk, not acting obsessed at all. So she came to me. I think that I should keep some sort of contact, every now and then


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