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    rob999 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Advice - game was good now gone

    So my ex gf broke up with me 2 months ago. I didnt beg, plead or do anything just went straight NC. During 2 months I had 5 missed calls, 3 emails and 4 texts. I replied to one.

    We then reiniated contact. At first just friendly. Slowly she started sending VERY sexual messages my way. I rejected two booty calls.

    After her pretty much begging me to go round, which I declined. I then asked her to go for a drink the following week. At which she gave me the "lets just be friends line" and called me sleazy.

    Im at a complete loss. Any advice appreciated!

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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    You asked her to go for a drink...she wanted what she couldn't have

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    rob999 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    I thought it was one of two things - what you said, OR that she revealed too much sleazyness (there were questions regarding handcuffs etc and what to do with them), and was embarrassed so changed it round and projected onto me??

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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    Root 'em and boot 'em. Next!

    Your game was good when she chased you. Try ignoring her again, it worked the first time. But I'd just move on and start dating other girls.

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    rob999 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    I told her to stop fucking with my head and let me go so I can move on. Maybe that sounds weak, but jesus, she was messing with me.

    Got beat by a better player.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    Good on you. You didn't get beaten, you had her, you will move onto better things. She chased you back more than you did her.

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    rob999 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    Can I ask though. Why did she freak out about sex when I didnt even mention it? She kept shouting down the phone I dont want to have sex with you........I didnt even ask

    Was this a pre-emptive rejection? clearly she was thinking about it

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    Sounds like an emotional power trip. She already had sex with you, she sent you sexual messages, that sexual attraction never really dies, it's other things that mostly break people apart. I don't know if anyone ever completely looses sexual attraction to their ex's. Next time something like that happens say 'of course you do, and so does my new girlfriend'. It's emotional language she's using (and rather hurtful and jaded too) not logical rational fact.

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    rob999 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    It was completely unprovoked hence my confusion, I hadnt really said anything to that effect, I mean we had a great sex life, but I said if we met it was just for a coffee.

    It was ridiculous, completely ridiculous, she pulled all kinds of reasons why she couldnt have sex with me - she didnt know where id been insinuating id been screwing around, she didnt want to get attached, she didnt want this or that. But I hadnt even asked her to have sex with me AT ALL, and nothing in my messages apart from light flirting insinuated that. Her in contrast had complained in two messages that she was frustrated sexually and warned me to look out.

    Im left scratching my head. Nothing has ever happened like that to me before from any girl.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Advice - game was good now gone

    Maybe she had been looking up female PUA sites and someone gave her advice to say all this 'I dont want sex with you' rhetoric as a game plan haha...

    Delete her from your life.


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